George Washington’s Rules of Civility (and Decent Behaviour in Company and Conversation)

George Washington’s “Rules of Civility and Decent Behaviour in Company and Conversation” is a collection of 110 maxims that emphasize proper conduct and etiquette in social interactions. Originally derived from a set of French rules, Washington adopted and translated them in his youth. The rules cover various aspects of behavior, including:

1. Respect for Others: Treating people with kindness and dignity, acknowledging their presence, and showing proper deference in conversation.
2. Politeness and Modesty: Maintaining humility and refraining from boasting, as well as speaking appropriately according to the situation.
3. Listening and Understanding: The importance of listening attentively and allowing others to express their thoughts without interruption.
4. Avoiding Controversy: Steering clear of topics that could lead to disagreements or discord, particularly in mixed company.
5. Good Manners: Practicing etiquette during meals and gatherings, sharing space amicably, and being gracious in both victories and losses.

Collectively, these maxims provide insight into the social expectations of Washington’s time and reflect timeless principles of civility that are still relevant today.

Could you imagine what our current president’s book would look like?