Melody Beattie writes:
Stop trying so hard to control things. It is not our job to control people, outcomes, circumstances, life. Maybe in the past we couldn’t trust and let things happen. But we can now. The way life is unfolding is good. Let it unfold.
Stop trying so hard to do better, be better, be more. Who we are and the way we do things is good enough for today.
Who we were and the way we did things yesterday was good enough for that day.
Ease up on ourselves. Let go. Stop trying so hard.
Today, I will let go. I will stop trying to control everything. I will stop trying to make myself be and do better, and I will let myself be.
Bright, shiny objects! 
Yes, I’m that type too. But I do like when others chip in…my cousin for example is a great house cleaner so I invite her over for lunch or dinner…and inevitably she starts cleaning the kitchen, she’s the type who thinks she does everything better. Good for me. I let her do all the cleaning she wants:)
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