If you go cold turkey off of refined sugar, things start to change within a day. Source: What Happens To Your Body If You Cut Out Sugar? | Digg
Why Chicago Became So Huge
Its position is unique in all the US, and the founders of the city knew it. Source: Why Chicago Became So Huge
What can attachment theory teach you about yourself and your relationships?
Confession. I struggle with attachment styles and I’m looking to change mine. It starts with an assessment you can find in the article I reference here: “How do you feel when your partner doesn’t respond to your text right away? Is it easy for you to express your feelings to friends or loved ones, or do you struggle? Do you stay in touch with exes? Worry your current partner will leave you?
How you answered those questions can offer some insight into your attachment style. According to the field of attachment theory, each person has a unique attachment style that informs how you relate to intimacy: secure, anxious, avoidant and a small subset who are anxious-avoidant.” Source: What can attachment theory teach you about yourself and your relationships? : Life Kit : NPR
Here’s how I scored:

LOL. How can someone be secure and anxious at the same time? That’s what I need to understand! No doubt it has to do with my origin story but I can’t that narrative rule me for the rest of my life…
Confronting Your Truth: The Life-Changing Benefits of Asking “Why?”

No matter what problems you’re facing, asking “why?” will help you break through the barriers that keep you stuck. Source: Confronting Your Truth: The Life-Changing Benefits of Asking “Why?” – Tiny Buddha
Why Life Can Feel Harder During Your 30s and 40s
As the stakes get higher, discovering the limits in their skills. Source: Why Life Can Feel Harder During Your 30s and 40s
The path of the inner truth
“God calls all of you to take the path of the inner truth–and that means taking responsibility for everything that’s in you: for what pleases you and for what you’re ashamed of, for the rich person inside you and for the poor one. Francis of Assisi called this, “loving the leper within us.” If you learn to love the poor one within you, you’ll discover that you have room to have compassion “outside” too, that there’s room in you for others, for those who are different from you, for the least among your brothers and sisters.” Richard Rohr
Finding Home After Divorce: What Brought Me Peace and Healing via @TinyBuddha
After divorce, home doesn’t feel like home anymore in the way one knew it. It’s hard on both parents and kids. Go to the source: Finding Home After Divorce: What Brought Me Peace and Healing – Tiny Buddha
Ancient Wisdom Meets Modern Therapy
Six ways to harness the power of stoicism and cognitive behavioral therapy. Source: Ancient Wisdom Meets Modern Therapy
Crossroads [Cover by @MarySpender Trio]
Brilliant, Mary Spender — just brilliant!
No More Lonely Nights
Only true Paul McCartney fans will know this obscure, sweet song. I guess that makes me a true fan…
Jug of Punch
I sang this song to me boyos as a ‘lullaby’ when they were young. My favorite verse is “What more diversion can a man desire that to sit him down by a snug, turf fire? On his knee a pretty wench aye and on the table a jug of punch”.
Steve Winwood’s ‘Higher Love’: “A modern hymn”
The lyrics of Winwood’s classic hit read like a dissertation on the divine. Click the link to read the original article: Steve Winwood’s ‘Higher Love’: “A modern hymn”
Hermann Hesse’s Quotes You Should Know Before You Get Old
At one time, I thought my destiny was to become a world famous Hermann Hesse scholar. While I did not accomplish that objective, my love for Hesse and his work still grows with each new discovery. Thanks to my friend Dalia for sending me the quote in the first place. Of course something this good deserves the full meme treatment…
What 20 Seconds of Hugging Can Do for You
Read the article: What 20 Seconds of Hugging Can Do for You
Merton, Eckhart & the Search for Our True & Deeper Selves
Human beings have to dig and work at finding our deep and true self. If we do not, we live superficially out of fear or greed or addiction and set ourselves up for false idols and lies. For someone else’s expectations for us which can set us up for dictatorship of many kinds. Indeed, it may be… Read More » Merton, Eckhart & the Search for Our True & Deeper Selves, continued – Daily Meditations with Matthew Fox
‘A serious-minded kid:’ Pete Buttigieg aimed high early
SOUTH BEND, Ind. (AP) — It was a running joke in his AP U.S. history class at Saint Joseph High School: Would Peter Buttigieg — the smartest kid in class, language whiz and devotee of John F. Kennedy — use his unusual last name in his eventual run for president of the United States? Source: ‘A serious-minded kid:’ Pete Buttigieg aimed high early
Why are INFJ and ENFJ Men So Rare?
“The ENFJ and INFJ men who do exist can take comfort in knowing that their unique set of caring and nurturing traits are needed badly everywhere.”
Why are INFJ and ENFJ Men So Rare?
Research tells us that just 2.8 percent of all men are either INFJs or ENFJs. This is a super-low percentage, revealing that the NFJ set of personality characteristics is only rarely measured among men who take the Myers-Briggs personality typing system test. Source: Why are INFJ and ENFJ Men So Rare?
A Stoic Idea Worth Tattooing On Your Body via @dailystoic
Don’t ask me what you should do, ask how to be made adaptable.
Epictetus
The Reason I’m Single via @maryspender
I’ve got no love for Miley Cyrus but I could listen to Mary Spender sing me the phone book!
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