Makes you cold…

…just listening to it! This is what the first day of spring looked like in my corner of the world…

Happy first day of spring

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4 Tips To Stop Saying Things You Wish You Could Take Back

4 Tips To Stop Saying Things You Wish You Could Take Back

Hayley Hobson

Last year I was back East visiting my parents for a few days when my mother and I got into one of our spats. I love my mother more than I can articulate, but we get into arguments every once in a while that leave us on non-speaking terms for days. Not good.  

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When Things Get Crazy, Do This!

Christine Hassler writes:

How you respond to the not-so-good times is an even better reflection of how far you’ve come in your growth. Keep reading as I share a powerful meditation that will support being peaceful in the midst of a storm. By peaceful I don’t mean that you aren’t going to have emotions. You deserve to express your feelings when it feels like life is handing you a 1,000 piece jigsaw puzzle. Just don’t sit in them too long and become a victim.  And don’t remain in such righteousness that you stop trusting the divine plan of the Uni-verse. Continue reading “When Things Get Crazy, Do This!”

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Spring officially begins tomorrow at 11:02 am.  In his novel Great Expectations, Charles Dickens said:

“It was one of those March days when the sun shines hot and the wind blows cold: when it is summer in the light, and winter in the shade.”

Charles, you are a wee bit off this morning.

I stepped out the door.  The Earth is covered with a six inch blanket of wet snow. The Wind is gusting up to 20 mph.  It is 28F. I shiver.  And think…

  • Where’s my Sun with a spring kiss of warmth?
  • Where are my cherry blossoms?
  • Where are my bubbling brooks?
  • Where are my budding trees?

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Daily Quote: What is Effective Leadership?

 

Daily Quote: What is Effective Leadership? – Lifehack.

True in business/true in life. The key is, to be able to lead and manage OURSELVES effectively…

Twitter snapshot for 3/20/2013

http://storify.com/e1evation/twitter-snapshot-for-3-20-2013

The 7-Step Guide to Misery


Dr. Margaret Paul shares this handy guide:

I doubt that anyone would say out loud that they love being miserable. Yet many people wallow in misery, doing the same things over and over that create their misery. While life is often challenging, lonely and heartbreaking, misery is a choice.

Why would someone make the choice to be miserable? Because it is often a way of getting attention and of attempting to get someone else to be responsible for them. If this is what you want, here is a roadmap to make sure you accomplish your goal

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It is in our faults and failings…

Another great quote from Kristin Neff’s book “Self-compassion”…

What is this self inside us…

A great quote from Kristen Neff’s book on self-compassion which I highly recommend…

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You are a college student.  You go to see Billy Joel perform on campus.  He was a childhood idol. You also happen to play the piano.  You raise your hand during the Q&A section.  He calls on you.  You ask if you can play your favorite song with him.  He agrees.  The rest is history.  As this student describes it: “The greatest moment of my life.”   Sit back and enjoy…this is something special.


Thank you Lori @ Donna & Diablo for sharing this wonderful clip. (LOVED IT!)

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Find A Way

Live Life Quotes, Love Life Quotes, Live Life Happy

via Find A Way.

One of my favorite quotes is from Hannibal who conquered Rome: “We will find a way or make one.”

The death of Google Reader

Ironically, Google produces no original content of their own but is engaging in a ‘shaping strategy’ than is killing products that curators use…

Ironically, Google produces no original content of their own but is engaging in a ‘shaping strategy’ than is killing products that curators use…

Ironically, Google produces no original content of their own but is engaging in a ‘shaping strategy’ than is killing products that curators use…

http://storify.com/e1evation/the-death-of-google-reader

Looking for clues at the scene of the Google Reader crime…

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Last week, I encouraged readers to keep calm and continue using Google Reader. While I still think that’s good advice, I’m not so sure any longer that Google will be rolling Reader into Google+. Why? I had forgotten at the time that Google had recently killed Feedburner and was not aware that Google had taken the RSS subscription extension out of the chrome Web store.

These three events together point to what innovation expert Tim Kastelle called a ‘shaping strategy’ on the part of Google to coerce people to publish and share in a way that Google wants them to. Tim commented “I definitely think that they’re following a shaping strategy – though I’m not sure about whether or not killing RSS actually helps it. For me the big issue is this: people that rely only on social media to find out what’s going on still need RSS, even if they don’t use it themselves.” Tim also pointed me to this article by Joshua Gans on The Social Structure Of News. In it, Gans says:

“The problem is that from what we know about the social structure of social media is that there are a set of roles available. Take Mark Thoma. His blog and twitter feeds have a huge following. Why? Because he reads all of the Econ blogs and picks out what he thinks is best. If you read Thoma, chances are you don’t need Google Reader. He is the social web.

But how does Thoma operate? My guess is that he uses a feed reader and has a system for tagging good posts and forwarding them on to others. Sometimes it is just a link. Other times he provides a quote and a little commentary. Remove his tools and his job gets harder.

Given this it should be no surprised that the most dismayed about the loss of Google Reader were the contributors to social web curation. There is only need for a few of these but they do an important job so disrupting them will harm many. In the Econ world, these people are well known. They are Brad de Long, Tyler Cowen and a few more specialized bloggers. In the days of old I used to do this too with multiple posts daily but the others were better and so I dropped back to being one of the many who hoped these curators would pick up their posts.

My point is that if you say you don’t use Google Reader because the social web takes care of you, then you are mistaken. The social web needs its tools and indirectly so do you.”

In their content guidelines published 11/1012, Google says

“One of the most important steps in improving your site’s ranking in Google search results is to ensure that it contains plenty of rich information that includes relevant keywords, used appropriately, that indicate the subject matter of your content.

However, some webmasters attempt to improve their pages’ ranking and attract visitors by creating pages with many words but little or no authentic content. Google will take action against domains that try to rank more highly by just showing scraped or other cookie-cutter pages that don’t add substantial value to users.”

Killing Google Reader goes beyond Google’s usual move to force users into the walled garden of Google+; I now believe this is a shaping strategy to kill curation and auto posting as a form of content marketing and to give Google more control over publishers in much the same way book publishers had control over authors in the ‘old days’.

There’s still really no rush to find a replacement for Google Reader — if you’re using Google Reader you’ll be able to export your sources before July 1 and import them into the next great RSS reader. What to do about Google is another issue altogether. Google has ‘exceeded their brief‘ and is getting evil

How about you? Do you see the ‘shaping strategy’ or do you have a different perspective?

Creating an Unreal Other

Tara Brach writes:

It is easy to be untouched by stories we read in the newspaper, on the Internet or watch on the news about people suffering from unemployment, loss of loved ones, war or natural disasters. More and more, in our world, we have a sense of “unreal others.” Unless we are really awake, we don’t see the person we’re reading about as a real subjective being. We don’t have a sense of “the one who is looking out through those eyes or feeling with that heart.” The other is not real to us, and our hearts don’t respond with authentic compassion. Continue reading “Creating an Unreal Other”

Nilofer Merchant Talks About Onlyness

feedly-1024x615Full story at: 9 Best Google Reader Alternatives in 2013 – Lifehack.

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