One of my favorite bloggers – Tara LeMieux – writes:
Grief has its way, does it not? Of exposing the roots of memory’s tallest shadow – and, the seemingly irreconcilable aspects of heart.
We long for that which has passed; we plead for better days. We stand alone in the mists of our guilt-laden thoughts, fearful to allow soul’s forgiveness.
“Be thine own palace,” writes poet, John Donne. “Or the world’s thy jail.”
Yet, yielding ourselves to this expansiveness of light can often prove overwhelming. Though never, my loves – unbearable.
The truth is – we, ourselves, divine these fates. And, we alone, determine our journey.
Whether to suffer a pain tethered to past, or to encourage the wonderment of tomorrow.
Let this be our choosing.
To some, grief is an unwelcome guest. While to others, a guide to forgiveness.
Go to the source for more: Mindfully Musing – The Forgiveness of Our Choosing.