Jasmin Bedria writes:
When most people envision the ideal relationship, they think of engulfing, inseparable love. Being “attached at the hip” is typically an early sign that you and your new love share the ever-consuming, romantic high of a Nicholas Sparks novel.
You want to keep learning about each other, acting as sponges to the other’s every word and affection.
So, how in the world can detachment actually strengthen an intensely loving and growing relationship?
Detachment is one of the most important aspects in achieving true, profound fulfillment. Believe it or not, practicing detachment while remaining vulnerable will benefit you in remarkable ways.
Get the full story here: 5 Reasons Detachment Can Save Your Relationship
And, for me it’s one of the most difficult concepts imaginable. Sigh…
Bright, shiny objects! 
I have lived out this truth in my relationship. It is the hardest yet most worthwhile thing you can do in a relationship with someone who has the potential to become your crutch rather than your Best friend. Blessings to you!
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I agree that it is truth, but very hard to attain if you have no idea what ‘healthy dependency’ looks like — there are so few models! Even in the article, the author talks about the benefits, but not how to attain them. That’s why this book has been such a tremendous help to me: http://toddlohenry.com/2012/11/08/healthy-dependency/ — it helps me to understand the roots of over-dependence and gives me tools to change…
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Relationshio building, based on trust, I imagine would resemble something like the life situation you describe here. Good post, some thought provoking material.
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I have a problem with the original article in that the author describes the benefits — which are very desirable — but not how to get there…
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Very true
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Man, I agree. that’s why I keep my bitches on a short leash. “Say what bitch? You got some problems?” Boom, back in the dog house she goes.
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Interesting perspective. Thanks for sharing… :-D
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