NOW

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How to Deal With Betrayal

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Christine Hassler writes…

Betrayal. Yuck. It’s one of the human experiences that can be so painful and hard to understand. It hurts when you feel lied to or when someone you thought you could trust shows you something different. When we feel betrayed or like our trust is broken, it’s natural to want to hang on to the anger, resentment, blame and “how could she” or “I can’t believe he” thoughts. But this keeps us in victim consciousness and only perpetuates our suffering.

There is a way out of the suffering. There is a way to bring lightness to this seemingly heavy experience.

Last week after receiving some unexpected information, I found myself in the depths of feeling betrayed. I did get through it and so can you!

Source: How to Deal With Betrayal? | Christine Hassler

Here is Farhana Dhalla reading from her book ‘Thank You for Leaving Me’…

Thank you for leaving me...

I wish I didn’t have to read my friend Farhana’s book, but I do. Click the image to see more!

Waiting For The Perfect Time?

via Waiting For The Perfect Time To Do That Thing You’ve Always Wanted To Do, But The Stars Aren’t Quite Aligned? Consider this….

Live with Kindness, Integrity and Spirituality

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Information vs knowledge

via information vs knowledge.

Can You Change Other People?

The incandescent light bulb

Q. How many psychologists does it take to change a light bulb?

A. One, but the light bulb has to want to change.

The best way to help other people change is to learn about how to change your own behavior. The more you know about the factors that drive your own behavior, the better you can use the same principles to help other people change.

via Can You Change Other People?.

Sharon Salzberg’s Secret To Finding ‘Real Happiness At Work’

Realizing Our Undefended and Awakened Heart

I’m listening to a dharma talk by Tara Brach this morning that I’d like to share with you. She says…

It is our evolutionary and spiritual potential to release unnecessary habits of violating other tribes, individuals and unwanted parts of our own being. This talk explores three essential facets of the pathway to awakening: Leaving the fortress of aversive judgment, entering the wilderness of our embodied being and encircling this life with love.

via Tara Brach : Realizing Our Undefended and Awakened Heart (retreat talk).

You can download the talk here.

Of Course I’ll Hurt You…

“Of course I’ll hurt you. Of course you’ll hurt me. Of course we will hurt each other. But this is the very condition of existence. To become spring, means accepting the risk of winter. To become presence, means accepting the risk of absence.” Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

via Of Course I’ll Hurt You.

May I forget what ought to be forgotten…

May I forget what ought to be forgotten; and recall, unfailing, all that ought to be recalled, each kindly thing, forgetting what might sting.

Quote Details: Mary Caroline Davies: May I forget what… – The Quotations Page

via Today’s Buddha Doodle: Best Friend.

The Three Relationship Skills Happy Couples Use Most…

In the article “The Three Relationship Skills Happy Couples Use Most,” the author, drawing from twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, identifies three key skills that contribute to the happiness and satisfaction of couples. The article emphasizes that these skills are not innate and often require learning and practice. The intention is to encourage couples, regardless of their current proficiency in these skills, to develop and enhance their relationship abilities for greater fulfillment in their partnership.

Go to the source to read the entire article: The Three Relationship Skills Happy Couples Use Most | Psychology Today.

Could this be the meaning of life?

Let’s start something…

Why You Should Never Buy Disposable Water Bottles Again

via Why You Should Never Buy Disposable Water Bottles Again [INFOGRAPHIC].

Im pretty sure I’m not relaxing right. Are you?

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Get more here: Im pretty sure Im not relaxing right. Are you?.

All these evils come from inside…

I’m thinking about the implications of this verse [which I have heard so many times] in a new light…

“14 Again Jesus called the crowd to him and said, “Listen to me, everyone, and understand this. 15 Nothing outside a person can defile them by going into them. Rather, it is what comes out of a person that defiles them.” [16] [f]

17 After he had left the crowd and entered the house, his disciples asked him about this parable. 18 “Are you so dull?” he asked. “Don’t you see that nothing that enters a person from the outside can defile them? 19 For it doesn’t go into their heart but into their stomach, and then out of the body.” (In saying this, Jesus declared all foods clean.)

20 He went on: “What comes out of a person is what defiles them. 21 For it is from within, out of a person’s heart, that evil thoughts come—sexual immorality, theft, murder, 22 adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. 23 All these evils come from inside and defile a person.” Matthew 15, New International Version”

What this seems to be saying to me is that it’s not the outer world that corrupts, it’s our inner world…

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