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Beauty is All Around You

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The Five Stages into Awareness. Teachings from my Hero’s Journey.

I love the blog ‘Melanie’s Life Online’ – I think it’s one of the best blogs of this type I have seen. She journals great trips to the Himalayas and the Camino de Santiago in Spain but the best trips are the ones she takes deep inside! Namaste, Melanie — please continue to document your ‘trips’… :-D

Picking Up Your Life

I think this is my favorite thought from this article: “We are meant to evolve through learning and growing. These processes take place within us physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. We all have areas of our lives where we feel stuck or unfulfilled at times. That’s not a problem — it’s perfectly normal, and often the irritation required for us to choose to pick up our life.” Namasté
Read the Article at HuffingtonPost

Why Our Thoughts Are Not Real

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Nancy Colier writes:

Did you ever realize that everything going on in your mind — every thought, feeling, sensation, everything you are aware of — is in fact happening only in your private internal world? Your thoughts appear only to you, and are not being heard by anyone else whatsoever. There is one physical world here on earth, but billions of different internal worlds. We are all in our own separate theaters, witnessing entirely different shows, and yet we behave as it we are in the same audience, watching the very same event we call life.

Why is it important to contemplate this truth? To meditate on this is liberating, because it implies that what we are personally living inside our heads is not real. We are aware of our thoughts, so in that sense they are real. And yet, our thoughts do not exist outside of our awareness. There is nowhere else where the thought that is appearing to you at this moment is actually occurring. Unlike the way we imagine it, our thoughts are not solid, like trees or rocks that exist outside of us in some tangible way. Certainly I have never seen a thought walk by me on the street. Where, how and if thoughts even exist within the body is not clear. That thoughts appear to our awareness, on a giant projection screen (to which we are the audience), is all we know.

Let’s say that at this moment you are having a thought about a friend and something specific that she did, and what you want to say to her in response. That friend who you are thinking about is not experiencing your thought (about her) at this moment. If you don’t engage with, or entertain that thought, it will literally not exist. The thought appears only within you. Your friend knows nothing of it. And making it even stranger, you did not even have the thought that you are calling “yours.” Rather, it appeared to and within your awareness, without your ever choosing it or asking it to show up! If that thought is not fueled with your attention or interest, it will already have disappeared.

Read the Article at HuffingtonPost

Recovery Is a Choice. By Jennifer Lake.

Thanks for the great guest post, Jennifer[s]…

Today’s Thoughts Are Tomorrow’s History

Ed and Deb Shapiro write:

Quite often we put too much importance on our thoughts and take them so seriously that they can lead us into all kinds of emotional turmoil. Some thoughts are inspiring, while others can be misleading. One time we were teaching meditation. and Ed said to Mary, a participant, that when we meditate all sorts of outrageous thoughts may arise. In response, Mary blurted out, “Wow, how’d you know?” Because of her negative thoughts, Mary felt she was a terrible person. Yet thoughts are simply words in our mind. Those we thought yesterday are gone and new thoughts arise only to disappear into the next moment.

We lived in Dartmouth, on the south coast of England, and each day we would take walks along the wide river Dart to the estuary. One day we were standing and gazing at the flowing water when it struck us that though the river always looked the same, day after day, it was no more the same than it was even a second ago. It was constantly changing, always moving, always different.

Which is just like our thoughts and feelings. Can you remember what you were thinking yesterday that seemed so important? Who we are now is not who we were last week, an hour ago, even a few minutes ago. Like the river, we are always changing. Continue reading “Today’s Thoughts Are Tomorrow’s History”

Defying Gravity With Style

How High-Maintenance Relationships Affect Your Psyche

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In the spirit of the upcoming ‘Twilight‘ movie, I would like to talk about the undead: vampires. More precisely, emotional vampires. Are there people in your life who just sap your emotional energy once they walk in the door? Do you feel totally spent after interacting with some people? There are vampires among us, and I am actually more frightened about sitting next to one at a dinner party than meeting Count Dracula himself.

My colleague Eli Finkel at Northwestern University conducted a very important series of studies on what he calls high-maintenance interactions. In essence, these studies are about social coordination, and how the lack of social coordination can deplete our ability to exert self-control.

Self-control is critical to everyday life. With high self-control, we can limit food temptations, complete difficult tasks at work, and, resist the urge to smack a co-worker when he/she is being a bit too condescending. Continue reading “How High-Maintenance Relationships Affect Your Psyche”

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I miss Far Side…

If you feel the same way, you can get your fix here

At the end of the day…

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Ask and you shall receive…

@JRR_Richardson asked…

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Well JRR? Here you go…

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The real challenge…

The real challenge of the personal development journey is not to be awesome, amazing, incredible or any other stereotypical, vomity self-help-type adjective but rather, to be authentically you. The ongoing-work-in-progress you. The you that acknowledges and accepts your humanity while striving to explore your potential, learn some lessons and do some good along the way. The you that understands the difference between self-loathing and self-awareness and the you that understands that life is not a mantra, a poster, a fire-walk or an inspirational speech.

I’m a F**kwit (sometimes)

Five Reasons Why Asking Questions is Good for Your Career…

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Asking questions can serve you well at any stage of your career. Continue reading here:

via Five Reasons Why Asking Questions is Good for Your Career | The High Calling.

To the rushing water speak

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And if the earthly has forgotten
you, say to the still earth: I flow.
To the rushing water speak: I am.

Rainer Maria Rilke


Credits: poem – lifeinpoetry.  Image: Hungarian Soul.  Rilke poem from “Sonnets to Orpheus

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Did you ever hear that one where 2 people meet in a room…

I thought it was a little crowded in here! :-D

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William James Quote


Source: pulpinsidefiction.  Quote: William James (1842-1910).  An American philosopher and psychologist who was also trained as a physician. The first educator to offer a psychology course in the United States, James was one of the leading thinkers of the late nineteenth century and is believed by many to be one of the most influential philosophers the United States has ever produced, while others have labelled him the “Father of American psychology.”

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Start with What You Have…

Start with What You Have by Zig Ziglar (@TheZigZiglar) at @SimpleReminders.

“If you do not tell the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about other people.”

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