How to Get What You Want in Relationships

I just discovered Shelly Bullard this morning [I wonder how she feels about being ‘discovered’. :-D]. Here she writes:

There is something you can do to guarantee getting what you want in your relationships. And it’s probably not what you think. In fact, its probably the opposite of what you think. No, it’s not by getting him to commit or by getting a guarantee from her. You’ve tried all those things–they don’t work. Trying to GET someone to GIVE something to you is always a dead-end street. But there is something else you can do–it’s something that you probably haven’t thought of. This something is called GIVING.

Yes, turns out the old saying is true, “You get what you give.” Problem is, most of us think we are giving; in fact, we think we are giving and giving and giving–too much! If you give and give and give (more than you…