I love this guy…
“You attract to you in relationship who you are. Do you like what you see? You are constantly in relationship with yourself.The partners you attract to you in the form of the man or woman are a physical manifestation of who and where you are in your own consciousness at this moment in time. Look at who you are attracting. What does this mirror to you about your own self?There is so much talk about finding the perfect partner.” via How To Attract The Perfect Partner!.
Bright, shiny objects! 
What do you think?