“We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers – but never blame yourself. It’s never your fault. But it’s always your fault, because if you wanted to change you’re the one who has got to change.”
– Katharine Hepburn, iconic film actress.
via Today’s Quotes: If You Want To Fly, You’re Going To Ruffle Some Feathers!.
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