8 Ways To Take Control Of Your Life

Sometimes we lose ourselves when we are trying to adjust to a big change in life, for example, a new job, new college or a change in location. This tends to make us feel lost and helpless as if we are not running our life, but life is running us. Our goals seem too far to reach, and we are blinded by the fog in front of our eyes. Well, but when we are driving the wheel, we stay focused on what’s in front of us, try not to lose our balance and keep looking behind via a mirror to know when to take the next big move, right? Similar is our life and here are ways we can take control of it. Don’t worry; it happens to everybody…

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Vintage 1942: The more things change, the more they…

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Every time I hear a political speech or I read those of our leaders, I am horrified at having, for years, heard nothing which sounded human. It is always the same words telling the same lies. And the fact that men accept this, that the people’s anger has not destroyed these hollow clowns, strikes me as proof that men attribute no importance to the way they are governed […]”

– Albert Camus, Notebooks, 1935-1942 


Notes: Quote Source – Schonwiener. Photo: George Horner on The Bowery Billboard (via this isn’t happiness)

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Guided Meditation: The RAIN of Self Compassion by Tara Brach

The RAIN acronym taught by Tara Brach in Tara Talks – Guided Meditation: The RAIN of Self Compassion – Tara Brach

is a four-step mindfulness and self-compassion practice designed to work through difficult emotions and self-judgment:

  • R – Recognize[00:02:55]: Notice and acknowledge what is happening within you in the present moment. This involves identifying the specific thoughts, emotions, or bodily sensations—such as feeling “at war” with yourself or caught in a feeling of unworthiness—without pushing them away.
  • A – Allow[00:03:14]: Let the experience be there just as it is without trying to fix, avoid, or resist it. Allowing creates mental space and pause by accepting the present reality before reacting.
  • I – Investigate[00:03:34]: Explore your experience with gentleness, curiosity, and non-judgment. Connect directly with the physical sensations in your body [00:04:46] (e.g., tension in the throat, chest, or stomach) and ask what this vulnerable part of you needs most [00:05:06].
  • N – Nourish[00:06:01]: Offer care, love, and compassion inward to the parts of you that are hurting. This can take the form of placing a hand on your heart [00:05:50], offering reassuring phrases (such as “I care about this suffering”), or simply directing warm kindness toward yourself.

After completing these steps, the practice concludes by resting in the open, spacious awareness of simply being present rather than identified with the difficulty [00:08:29].

An interview with Dr. Steve McSwain on Spirituality

In my opinion, Dr. Steve McSwain is one of the world’s foremost thought leaders on the topic of spirituality and interfaith issues. He is an awakened or enlightened Southern Baptist minister — a category which most would consider to be an oxymoron. This interview is a long, but worthwhile, overview of his perspective on God and religion.

In the spirit of full disclosure, Steve McSwain is a client of mine, but he’s a client of mine because I discovered his thinking on the Huffington Post website and started tracking him in my feed reader. I curated and commented on his content and over time, we eventually entered into a support agreement. I’m now one of his ‘internet plumbers’ helping him on a wide variety of issues from email to social media and I’m happy to help him ‘get found’ on the internet so that more people can be exposed to his thinking…

What if cats said “hey” instead of meow

Cat videos like this are why the internet exist…

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7 Things We Have to Stop Telling Ourselves About Other People

What we tell ourselves about people – what we think we know – is often far from the truth.

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10 Habits of Unhappy People (And How to Fix Them)

Great article worth a read. Go to the source after the quote…

What was making me unhappy wasn’t outside of me, but the habits I had built up over the years. Here are those 10 habits and how I overcame them.

Source: 10 Habits of Unhappy People (And How to Fix Them)

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