Valerie Mason-John shares a meditation for cultivating a positive relationship with yourself, and, by extension, the world: A Practice for Developing Kindness Toward Yourself
Jung’s Five Pillars of a Good Life
Carl Jung had five pillars of happiness. “Beyond the scientific research that supports this strategy, we also have the evidence of its effectiveness in the example of Jung’s life. He made his list to mark his 85th birthday, which was to be the last one he celebrated. By all accounts, he made progress toward happiness over his life, had a long and devoted marriage, died surrounded by the people he loved, and was satisfied that he had used his abilities in a meaningful way that served others. In this world, that sounds pretty good to me”. Here they are: Jung’s Five Pillars of a Good Life
The Biggest Mistake We Make in Our Intimate Relationships
Discover how embracing acceptance over expectation can lead to deeper connection and lasting love. Source: The Biggest Mistake We Make in Our Intimate Relationships
The Psychological Power of Words
The words we pin on ourselves can cut deeply: The Psychological Power of Words
3 Powerful Phrases to Overcome Trauma and Reclaim Strength
Here are three powerful phrases to help you overcome the pain and start the process of healing from trauma caused by others: 3 Powerful Phrases to Overcome Trauma and Reclaim Strength
Let Go of the Things that no Longer Serve You
In order to better our life, we need to let go of the things that no longer serve us. When we begin to let go of the things that no longer serve us, it’s like metaphorically cleaning house. When we clean house in our life, we start by letting go of people who no longer add to our quality of life. The majority of our relationships shift in nature and aren’t the same as they began. We may have a close friend that becomes more of an acquaintance and an acquaintance may turn into a close friend. Another aspect of cleaning house it letting go of our old ways of thinking. Old ways of thinking are usually made up of of thoughts that hold us back, limiting thoughts, limiting language, and our unique negative broken record based on family and pass limiting teachings and learned limitations. When we clean house we take a personal intiative to better our life, to let go of the things that no longer add to our quality of life, and offers us the room to bring in to our life what we need to positively push forward and succeed.
Learning to Accept Your Emotions
Learn how to stop sabotaging yourself with judgmental thoughts that fuel unhelpful emotions: Learning to Accept Your Emotions
8 Steps to Making Peace With Your Past Self
How do you make peace with your past self so you can live a life of meaning, satisfaction, and joy with the latest version of you? Go to the Source: 8 Steps to Making Peace With Your Past Self
How to Stop Overthinking
“What if this happens?” “What if I had done that differently?” These are thoughts that become repetitive and create more distress. Source: How to Stop Overthinking
Brené on Strong Backs, Soft Fronts, and Wild Hearts
In this solo episode recorded on Election Day 2020, I talk directly to our wholehearted community about the practice that helps me when I’m feeling fearful, worried, or wobbly, and why this work is the foundation for true belonging: Brené on Strong Backs, Soft Fronts, and Wild Hearts
12 Common Signs of Abandonment Trauma
Abandonment can leave profound psychological wounds that manifest in various ways throughout a person’s life. Here are 12 of the most common signs. Source: 12 Common Signs of Abandonment Trauma
Why You Should Spend Quality Time With Yourself
The journey of self-discovery is unique to each individual. Embrace the process and allow yourself the time and space to explore your inner world. Source: Why You Should Spend Quality Time With Yourself
The 3 Essential Stages of Love Bombing
Love bombers who exhibit narcissistic tendencies typically have a pattern of behavior that is apparent in these 3 essential stages. Source: The 3 Essential Stages of Love Bombing
Is This Person Capable of Giving You What You Want?
Imagine living with people who respect each other’s boundaries, use positive communication strategies, and understand each other’s limitations and capabilities. Here’s how: Is This Person Capable of Giving You What You Want?
Are You Airbrushing Your Relationship?
In the rush to find lasting love and security, many people idolize a new partner. But the false story they tell themselves often leads to heartache. Source: Are You Airbrushing Your Relationship?
Do You Need Fierce Self-Compassion?
Could you use a little self-compassion? Dr. Kristin Neff shares the kind way to set boundaries and stand up for yourself. Source: Do You Need Fierce Self-Compassion?
The Boundaries You Didn’t Know You Needed
We love to talk about external boundaries and setting limits with others. But what about setting limits for ourselves? Internal boundaries have the power to transform your life. Source: The Boundaries You Didn’t Know You Needed
Facing the Fear of Death
Many people fear their inevitable death. Here are 7 tips to help you live more and worry less about your mortality. Source: Facing the Fear of Death
Eat These 3 Superfoods a Day to Keep the Therapist Away
Your brain will thank you for eating these three science-approved superfoods. Source: Eat These 3 Superfoods a Day to Keep the Therapist Away
Ac-Cent-Tchu-Ate the Positive
Just spent an hour with my therapist and she told me I need to stop thinking what I was thinking and start thinking positive things. It dawned on me that what she was really saying was I needed to take what I call the ‘Perry Como approach’ of ‘Accentuate the Positive’ although she was unfamiliar with the song. This is 2:13 of some of the best mental health advice you can get!
Read the history of the song here: Ac-Cent-Tchu-Ate the Positive – Wikipedia
PS Basically, what she told me to do was ‘stop it’ which is also great advice…

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