How Childhood Trauma Leads to Addiction

Gabor Maté CM (born January 6, 1944) is a Hungarian-born Canadian physician. He has a background in family practice and a special interest in childhood development and trauma, and in their potential lifelong impacts on physical and mental health, including on autoimmune disease, cancer, ADHD, addictions, and a wide range of other conditions. Now retired from clinical practice, he travels and speaks extensively on these and related topics, both in North America and abroad. His books have been published internationally in over twenty-five languages. Maté’s approach to addiction focuses on the trauma his patients have suffered and looks to address this in their recovery, with special regard to indigenous populations around the world.


Inspired Resolutions via @JordanFScotti

Creating meaningful, lasting change in the new year. Source: Inspired Resolutions

5 Teachings From The Japanese Wabi-Sabi Philosophy That Can Drastically Improve Your Life

Wabi-sabi is a concept that motions us to constantly search for beauty in imperfection and accept the more natural cycle of life. It reminds us that all things including us and life itself, are impermanent, incomplete, and imperfect. Perfection, then, is impossible and impermanence is the only way. Go to the source: 5 Teachings From The Japanese Wabi-Sabi Philosophy That Can Drastically Improve Your Life — OMAR ITANI

How Have You Grown This Year?

Are you giving yourself credit for how you’ve grown and changed? Source: How Have You Grown This Year?

How to Reclaim Your Brain From Big Tech via @MindfulOnline

Here’s how you can use mindfulness to pause, pay attention, and align your tech and social media use with your values. Source: How to Reclaim Your Brain From Big Tech – Mindful

The Value of Effortless Action

Are you tired? Stop “swimming” against life. Source: The Value of Effortless Action

If You Really Want to Change the World: 4 Ways to Be Kind via @TinyBuddha


Be kind because it is the easiest thing that you can do to make the world a better place. Here are four ways to do it. Source: If You Really Want to Change the World: 4 Ways to Be Kind – Tiny Buddha

Guided Heart Meditation: Loving Kindness – Befriending our Lives

This heart meditation guides us in how to cultivate a deep quality of friendliness in relating to our inner life and each other. The gift of this practice is a direct sense of belonging – knowing that we can never be alone.

How to Build a Stronger Sense of Coherence

Genuine coherence of beliefs, feelings, and behavior requires deliberate effort. Source: How to Build a Stronger Sense of Coherence

16 Signs You Were Raised by a Highly Critical Parent

Constant criticism can have long-term effects on self-worth and relationships. Source: 16 Signs You Were Raised by a Highly Critical Parent

One Incredibly Cool Fact about the Brain

The cool thing? Neuroplasticity. Go to the source for more: One Incredibly Cool Fact about the Brain.

The One Thought That Killed My Crippling Fear of Other People’s Opinions via @TinyBuddha

I spent years worrying about what other people thought, and it controlled my life, until one thought set me free. Source: The One Thought That Killed My Crippling Fear of Other People’s Opinions – Tiny Buddha

What Is Stoicism? A Definition & 9 Stoic Exercises To Get You Started

For those of us who live our lives in the real world, there is one branch of philosophy created just for us: Stoicism. It’s a philosophy designed to make us more resilient, happier, more virtuous and more wise–and as a result, better people, better parents and better professionals. Source: What Is Stoicism? A Definition & 9 Stoic Exercises To Get You Started

Want to go deeper? Check out this summary of Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations…

Brian Johnson offer’s a great overview here but you have to create a free account…

Never Freak Out

If you can prevent your emotions from taking over in the face of stress, you can avoid a lot of regret and set a good example for others. Source: Never Freak Out

Why community matters so much — and how to find yours

A community can serve as a social safety net, but finding one and becoming a part of it is different from simply making friends. Source: Why community matters so much — and how to find yours

You define your goals via @davidamerland

You define your goals. They don’t define you. But the goals you set always define who you will become. This is true whether you succeed in them or not, reach them or not.

Amerland, David. Intentional (p. 62). David Amerland. Kindle Edition.

Knowing Your “Why” Will Get You Through Just About Any “How”

Having a sense of purpose can give life meaning and make you resilient. Source: Knowing Your “Why” Will Get You Through Just About Any “How”

Know your why!

How to Handle Rejection

Rejection: We all can feel it. Consider these sources and solutions: How to Handle Rejection

A Cognitive Bias That Could Trigger Nuclear War

There is danger in thinking we know what is unthinkable to someone else. Source: A Cognitive Bias That Could Trigger Nuclear War

Why Your Pandemic Fatigue Is At an All-Time High (Even as Cases Dwindle)

I’m a psychiatrist and I’m exhausted, too. Source: Why Your Pandemic Fatigue Is At an All-Time High (Even as Cases Dwindle)

The real secret of life

“This is the real secret to life—to be completely engaged with what you are doing in the here and now. And instead of calling it work, realize it is play.”

Alan Watts

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