This May Be Why You Can’t Communicate Well In Your Relationship

Here’s how to deescalate a conversation that’s going off the rails: This May Be Why You Can’t Communicate Well In Your Relationship

Day 90: Lesson 5 from quitting booze and sugar. Exercise self-compassion.

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My goodness! What a difference this made!

I used to think that the harder I was on myself, the more likely I was to succeed. As much as I hated the mental beatings, they felt like a necessary evil. How was I ever going to get anywhere if I went easy on myself?

I had no idea that all I was doing was creating the illusion of control. I never felt better and rarely did better as a result. All I did was stress myself out and since stress is the enemy of willpower and mental strength it’s fair to say I was actually making the situation worse. I had to find a way to reduce stress and gain genuine control.

I found the key in “The Willpower Instinct” by Kelly McGonigal PH.D. It is absolutely packed with useful and fascinating information but one of the most surprising…

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Glory Days

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When is the Best Time to Fix the Roof

Hint: When the Sun Is Shining

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Psychology Explains 10 Ways To Let Go of Worry

Worry can be debilitating, but it doesn’t have to be. How to let go of moments and feelings of worry, you’ll be able to live life to the fullest: Psychology Explains 10 Ways To Let Go of Worry

Why is human quotient getting lost?

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Running behind life,

Catching up breaths,

Aiming to make more and more,

Are we forgetting less is more?

Wandering between desks,

Staring at our screens,

Struggling with our dreams now bigger,

Are we missing on life’s little treasures?

Boasting of being connected,

Thousands of emails to check,

Hours spent texting and messaging,

I ask,Are we really talking?

Phones talk on dinner tables,

Mental maths has taken a toll,

Gadgets have replaced family values,

The question remains, Are we even caring?

Now eyes don’t meet in person,

Neither is laughter shared in real,

In pursuit of higher Intelligence

Are we ignoring the Human essence?

When humans remain no human,

Technology replaces emotions,

Grannies don’t tell stories any more,

Kids ask questions to “Alexa” more.

I know it all, thanks to Google,

The mind has forgotten to doodle,

Life’s become so dependent,

And we call ourselves independent.

In pursuit of higher IQ

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WON’T YOU BE MY NEIGHBOR? Fred Rogers Documentary

What a great documentary – it brought tears to my eyes…

Shifting #time

Parental alienation syndrome

What day is it, asked Pooh?

Source: Winnie the Pooh Quotes, What day is it Print, Disney Pooh Prints, What day is it, asked Pooh? It’s today, My favourite day.

Austin’s Bat Bridge: A Viewing Guide

No, I’m not ‘batty’! If you’re ever in Austin, TX just before sundown, you just have to see the bats ‘go to work’…

Get the best viewing times and vantage points for enjoying the nightly bat spectacle at Austin’s Congress Avenue bridge.

Austin’s Bat Bridge: A Viewing Guide

ASMR: Eating Macarons (Macaroons, Ma-Ka-Rohns)

Can anyone explain to me why ASMR (click the link if you’re unfamiliar with the term) is a thing? Here’s a sample from one of the ‘hottest’ ASMR YouTubers in the world…

Susan David on Emotional Agility

Drawing on more than twenty years of research in the field of behavioural science, Harvard psychologist Susan David reveals how ‘emotional agility’ is the key to flourishing in work and life.

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A poem by Mary Oliver

Your pain was always a part of a plan

You may have made some mistakes

How to speak up for yourself

Speaking up is hard to do, even when you know you should. Learn how to assert yourself, navigate tricky social situations and expand your personal power with sage guidance from social psychologist Adam Galinsky.

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Tell us what excites you — whether it’s personal growth or shifting your perspective — and get personalized TED Talk recommendations, delivered right to your inbox. Get inspired with the talk that’s perfect for you!

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Genius 101

This is an introduction to Genius 101 (feat. Michael Gelb): Discover Your Brilliance With Lessons From The All-Time All-Star Dream Team Of The Mind

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