Doubt has been a constant companion, a shadow friend I could not escape. No matter how hard I tried to see if anyone else stood behind her, sheād contort herself in strange ways to block my view. Continue reading “The Opposite of Doubt”→
Psychologist and writer Barb Markway shares this this ‘Independence Day’:
The Self-Compassion Bill of Rights
Today, this fourth day of July, year two thousand and twelve, I, Barbara Ellen Gerth Markway, do solemnly declare these inalienable truths and freedoms for myself, and for my Self-Compassion Project friends. Continue reading “Hearts Set Free…”→
Google Reader is gone. No farewell message. No thank you for the support. In fact, I can see my feeds in Google Reader, I just can’t interact with them.
A pretty clear indication that Google really doesn’t give a Tinker’s Damn for customers ā only their data and the dollars they can glean from it. This whole experience has had a profound impact on me from the first moment months ago when I first learned that Google was killing Google Reader for no good reason [and believe me, I’ve read them all over the past few months].
This stupid move, along with other ones like Windows 8 by Microsoft leave me wondering where I can place my trust. Oddly enough, I find myself rethinking open source products like Ubuntu, Firefox and Thunderbird. Who knows where that will lead?!
In the meantime, thank you Google Reader. Thanks to you, I consumed over a half a million articles in the past 6.5 years of use and I am what I am today because of what I learned from you. And, thank you feedly for stepping into the breach! I have loved you for over 4 years and used you alongside Google Reader. I’m glad you won the reader race!
Chatting with a new client in Australia yesterday, he asked the question should I care about Google+. The answer, of course, is an overwhelming yes! Hereās independent proofā¦
I know I’m opening myself up to a flame war here but I’m going to come right out and say it; the Mac is just not worth the money, especially if you do most of your work in the cloud.
There was a time when the Mac was demonstrably better at some tasks than others and that’s why is used it as my primary platform for 15 years. Heck, I even worked for Apple for 3 years I believed in the product and company so much!
These days though, in my work as an internet consultant, I use Mac, Windows AND Ubuntu and I am fluent in all three. I see no perceptible value in using Mac over the other two; in fact, it’s more the other way around. I like my 64bit Windows 7 machine but as Windows 8 [which appears to be another Vista to me] grabs more desktop real estate, I’m spending more and more time honing my Linux skills. After all, the Ubuntu operating system offers many of the benefits of a Linux or UNIX based operating system that looks good, but it uses inexpensive Windows hardware ā the best of all possible worlds! Especially if all you’re doing is using the internetā¦
Right now, I think the best combination of hardware and software for business blogging is a Windows 7 computer although that may change soon. No matter what, however, you won’t find me paying for a new Mac ā I don’t need the industrial design when I’m just looking at a monitor they’re just not worth the cost especially when Firefox, Chrome and Safari run on all of the major computing platforms! Questions? Feedback?
David Seah has some great thoughts on this thing called āimposter syndromeā that Tanya Geisler discussed in her TED talk last fallā¦
Lauren Bacon has a really great article on Imposter Syndrome, the tendency for some people to not acknowledge recognition for their accomplishments because they feel it isnāt deserved for one reason or another. I suffer from this myself every time someone calls me an āexpertā; I instantly demure, saying that I only write about what I experience, and that my knowledge and skills are not all-encompassing enough, blah blah. I hate disappointing people, and I rationalize my behavior by telling myself itās prudent not to raise the hopes of others, since that would leave them open to the dangerous repercussions that might come from following whatever so-called advice I had. It also has prevented me from really pushing the various productivity forms Iāve made, because Iām not 100% sure that they will work for everyone. In fact, Iām sure they wonāt work for everyone. People tell me Iām being silly, but I still havenāt resolved the WHY and HOW of it.
That is, until today. Lauren makes the observation that thereās a difference between expertise and infallibility, and proceeds to dissect the ramifications of not embracing your own expertise. Take heart! There are plentiful reasons why you should overcome imposter syndrome.
What I am reminded of is that thereās an underlying moral imperative that exists for me: while I didnāt want to inadvertently lead people astray with my pedantic mumblings, to not stand up for what Iām saying does not help people either. I want to see people overcome their own self-imposed barriers and achieve the kind of happiness they can share with the world. In that context, I owe it to myself as part of this community of happiness-seekers to powerfully broadcast the signal.
What I donāt like about the āexpertā label is that I think it implies āsuperiorityā. It also promises āsuperlative excellenceā, which creates expectation, and expectation is the fertile minefield where disappointment lurks. As I hate disappointing people, I tend to avoid setting high expectations for my forms, which in turn diminishes their appeal because it looks like I donāt believe in them. However, I think I can reframe āexpertā as a label not for myself, but for others who are looking for something. Itās part of being a beacon or a repeater of certain positive memes. That is a responsibility that I should be willing to take, as uncomfortable as it makes me feel, because itās good for me and for my imagined tribe, whoever they may be. This feels a little half-baked to me still, but itās a start.
I pretty much grabbed all of Davidās article in this quote, but I added him to feedly so I can track him in the future. If Iām reading correctly, then David and I agree on this; that not telling your story is just as bad as narcissism in some ways.
When it comes to social media, I believe that there is what Aristotle called a āgolden meanā ā he defined it as a virtuous path between two vices. I think the golden mean in social media is to share what Nilofer Merchant calls your āonlynessā [which she defines as āthat thing that only YOU can bring to a situation. As you see yourself, others can see you and the value you bringā] with transparency and humility while avoiding the pitfall of narcissism.
Jesus himself said āyou are the light of the worldāā¦
So, use social media to ‘let your light so shine before men’, but, donāt go overboard. The great Indian teacher Nisargadatta Maharaj once said, “Wisdom tells me I am nothing. Love tells me I am everything. Between the two my life flows.” So it is with social media as a tool for communicating thought leadership ā to be effective you must find the middle way; a way I call a ‘me’cosystem — a system for finding and sharing the things you need to deepen AND document your expertise so that you get found when people are looking for you and what you do…
In summary, donāt hide your light under a bushel but donāt blind everyone with your brilliance! If you need help with the thoughts, tools and tactics for transformational thought leadership, I offer personal digital coaching. Use the contact widget in the sidebarā¦
Thanks to Tim Kastelle for recommending this awesome book for thought leaders or “idea entrepreneurs” as the author calls them:
In Breaking Out, idea developer and adviser John Butman shows how the methods of todayās most popular āidea entrepreneursāāincluding dog psychologistCesar Millan, French lifestyle guru Mireille GuilianoFrench Women Donāt Get Fat, TOMS founder Blake Mycoskie, and many othersācan help you take an idea public and build influence for it.It isnāt easy. Butman argues that the rise of the āideaplexā TED, Twitter, NPR, YouTube, online learning, and all the rest has caused such an explosion in the creation and sharing of ideas that it has become much easier to go publicāyet much harder to gain influence. But it can be done.Based on his own experience in advising content experts worldwide, Butman shows how the idea entrepreneur breaks outāby combining personal narrative with rich content, creating many forms of expression from books to live events, developing real-world practices, and creating ārespirationā around the idea such that other people can breathe it in and make it their own. The resulting idea platform can reach many different audience groups and continue to build influence for many years and even decades.If you have an idea and want to make a difference in your organization, build a change movement in your community, or improve the world in some wayāthis book will get you started on the journey to idea entrepreneurship.
The title belongs to writer Tony Bradley, not me, but I like the conclusion of his article in Forbes:
I wouldnāt go so far as to say that privacy is ādeadā. Suffice it to say, our relationship with privacy has changed as a function of the benefits we can receive in exchange for that privacy. The reality is that youāre not completely giving up your privacy.Ā Your neighbors, or the stranger you pass on the street wonāt know anything about you. Youāre choosing to enter into a mutually beneficial arrangement that exchanges personal information for services. Youāre surrendering some of your privacy to Google, and youāre putting some trust in Google that it will both guard your personal information so your privacy isnāt truly violated, and that it will not do anything shady or unethical with your data itself.
Thatās a lot of faith to put in Googleāor any company for that matter. But, if youāre willing to take that leap of faith your technology can do amazing things and make your life simpler and more efficient. The more integrated you are in the Google ecosystemāthe more Google services you use, and the more extensively you use themāthe more value you will get from the relevant, context-aware features Google has put in place.
So shoot me — I’m now a Star Trek Voyager fan — especially beginning with Season 3. One of the more interesting character studies documents the relationship between Seven of Nine and the only child on the Voyager, Naomi Wildman. Naomi aspires to be more ‘borglike‘ but helps Seven become more human. The following exchange takes place in “The Voyager Conspiracy“…
“Quantity is less relevant than quality — you must be able to interpret the data and enjoy the process…”
When you aspire to transformational thought leadership, remember it’s the quality of the data that counts but more importantly, you must be able to interpret the data and enjoy the process…
Mike Allton [one of my new favorite bloggers] writes:
Since pre-historical times, people have been usingĀ the art of storytelling to communicate. Cavemen drew pictures on cave walls depicting great hunts and deeds. As language developed, oral tradition started, where people would tell and retell the same stories over and over againĀ to communicate their history and values. And then to help our forgetful minds, we found ways to preserve these stories on stone, paper and eventually electronically.
There are lots of stories that provideĀ pure entertainment value, but most stories strive to teach us something, whether it’s an actual lesson, or our history, or perhaps the human condition. If you think about some of the movies that you’ve seen which, years later, you can still recall and enjoy – there was a lesson in there that stuck with you.
Do you remember, “Toto, I’ve got a feeling we’re not in Kansas anymore.” Sure you do, that’s from The Wizard of OZ! Dorothy has an experienceĀ after her home is struck by a tornado and it teaches her to love and value the people she has in her life.
Ok, how about, “Houston, we have a problem.” Of course you remember Tom Hanks delivering that classic line as Jim Lovell in Apollo 13. The simple understatement of the line is even more profound considering most people who watched the film were familiar with the story it was telling, and knew that the astronaut’s troubles were just beginning. But we love that story and that film because of the fantastic triumph of the human spirit it portrays.
And what about, “I’m gonna make him an offer he can’t refuse.” You know that one. The Godfather, right? What’s the lesson there? I don’t know, maybe, don’t mess with the mafia?
The point is, those were great stories which touched us and taught us something. We enjoyed them and related to them and remember them to this day.
What if you could do that for your clients?
One of the most effective purposes for a business blogĀ is storytelling. You can tell stories about your clients and your products or services, but one of the best ideas is to tell stories about your actual business. But what do those stories look like? Here are six different kinds of stories you can tell, as well as some general tips on great storytelling.
Do go the source and read the rest of his perspective. You already know the rationale behind having a business blog ā Mike’s article may give you the confidence you need to proceed for to expand on what you’re already doingā¦
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Bright, shiny objects! 
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