Guided Meditation: The RAIN of Self Compassion by Tara Brach

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Compassion

Loving ourselves more: 10 Tips for greater self-compassion

“Self-compassion is extending compassion to one’s self in circumstances where we perceive ourselves as inadequate or helpless. It’s practice is associated with greater well-being, including diminished anxiety and depression, and better emotional coping skills.”

Get the rest here: Loving ourselves more: 10 Tips for greater self-compassion | moodwatchers – website of psychologist Shane Martin.

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My friend Kristin Barton Cuthriell has a great post on her blog today.

We may try to live with integrity, but slip up sometimes. We are human so it is going to happen. As long as we take responsibility for our actions, learn from our mistakes, and refuse to repeat damaging patterns of behavior over and over again, there is no need to wrap ourselves in shame which creates great pain. Having self-compassion rather than continually beating ourselves up will lead to greater peace of mind.

Get the rest of the article here: 2 Things People with Peace of Mind Do Differently. I suggest you follow her blog and read her epic book The Snowball Effect as a new year’s resolution…

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How to Practice Compassionate Listening

The Purpose Fairy writes:

“Deep listening is the kind of listening that can help relieve the suffering of another person. You can call it compassionate listening. You listen with only one purpose: to help him or her to empty his heart. Even if he says things that are full of wrong perceptions, full of bitterness, you are still capable of continuing to listen with compassion. Because you know that listening like that, you give that person a chance to suffer less. If you want to help him to correct his perception, you wait for another time. For now, you don’t interrupt. You don’t argue. If you do, he loses his chance. You just listen with compassion and help him to suffer less. One hour like that can bring transformation and healing.” ~ Thich Nhat Hanh

via How to Practice Compassionate Listening – Purpose Fairy.

Here are two enlightened souls talking about listening:

I also recommend this dharma talk from Tara Brach!

A moment of self compassion…

The benefits of #selfcompassion

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Growing self compassion

Growing Self Compassion

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Forget self-esteem and embrace self-compassion

I just stumbled across an old article form +Heidi Grant Halvorson in the +Harvard Business Review about #selfesteem vs. #selfcompassion that I think bears repeating. Here’s a link you can follow if you’d like to know more…

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Barbara Markway's avatarThe Self-Compassion Project

unnamed-28 From Sharon Salzberg

Compassion is the movement of the heart in recognizing our own or someone else’s vulnerability. We move towards that person, to see if we can be if help.

In day to day life that might look like simply recognizing our own humanity, or the humanity of someone else.

I was teaching recently and a woman told me, after a sitting, ” All week long my boss has been a tyrant — unfair, judgmental, in a very uncharacteristic way. It’s only been here, meditating, that it occurred to me to think, ‘ She might have something going on in her life that is provoking this.'”

Here’s the first post of this series, Hearthstones.

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Top 10 Scientific Benefits of Compassion

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Self compassion

Dr. Kristen Neff on the topic of self-compassion…

Mindful compassion

Interesting video on mindful compassion…

G...'s avatarMnemosyne and my musings

As much as i understand that compassion is a important virtue not just for being a better you, but also to make sense of things we cant accept and have to deal, unfortunately without a choice. And in those moments, if we can bring about some compassion, within, we struggle a little less.

I like to learn more about compassion, not just as a virtue, but as a science that works (such as mindfulness)

Here is a talk that combines both and Paul Gilbert makes it humorous 

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Self-Compassion and Setbacks

Another great post from Barb Markway…

Barbara Markway's avatarThe Self-Compassion Project

madewithover-12I originally wrote this for Psychology Today, but I think the information may also be useful to my awesome readers here.  Haven’t we all had the experience of trying to change something–maybe exercise more, quit smoking, or eat healthy? We do great for awhile and then boom, we “mess up.” How do we keep a setback from turning into a major relapse, and along with it, feeling awful about ourselves? Here are some gentle suggestions (on Psychology Today, they’d be called “tips.”  Oh, and they’d also be numbered.)

Expect setbacks. Change takes time, and often frequent tries. For example, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, most smokers require 5 to 7 attempts before they finally quit. Did these people fail the 5 to 7 times prior to the final cessation of smoking? Or were these attempts part of their eventual success? Consider thinking of…

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