4 Steps To The Healthiest Relationship You’ve Ever Been In

You can’t have a successful relationship until you can take ownership of your experiences!

It is our nature to have lots of thoughts, judgments, and feelings. Some that we want to identify with; others that we don’t.

It is common to confuse judgments with facts because we believe them so strongly. It is also common to confuse feelings with judgments (e.g. “I feel like you’re so wrong about that!”) and to have conflicting reactions, such as “You’re a jerk” and “I love you” at the same time. 

While our experience is involuntary and overwhelmingly strong and real for us at times, as conscious beings we can pick and choose our truth and what we say and do about it.

Ultimately, we are responsible for what we feel, think, say, and do. There are no victims in the conscious adult world. 

Taking ownership gives us power over our choices and destiny, and thus is the key to a successful and happy life full of rewarding relationships. Source: 4 Steps To The Healthiest Relationship You’ve Ever Been In