“You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.” ~Louise L. Hay
My favorite? Before seeking external validation, ask yourself, “What do I hope that person tells me?” Then tell it to yourself.
Get more here: 5 Ways to Validate Yourself: Be Part of Your Support System | Tiny Buddha.
Bright, shiny objects! 
What do you think?