
Each day, ask God what God wants us to do today; then ask God to help. A simple request, but so profound and far-reaching it can take us anywhere we need to go. Listen: all that we want, all that we need, all the answers, all the help, all the good, all the love, all the healing, all the wisdom, all the fulfillment of desire is embodied in this simple request. We need say no more than Thank You. This Plan that has been made for us is not one of deprivation. It is one of fullness, joy, and abundance. Walk into it. See for yourself. Today, I will ask God to show me what God wants me to do for this day, and then ask for help to do that. I will trust that is sufficient to take me into light and joy.
Beattie, Melody (2009-12-15). The Language of Letting Go (Hazelden Meditation Series) (p. 359). Hazelden. Kindle Edition.
You might also find this helpful…
“The following summarizes the description of the 11th Step provided in Alcoholics Anonymous (primarily on pp. 86-88). This is supplemented by some suggestions [in brackets] that we have found helpful.
Preparing for the Day Ahead
- We ask God to direct our thinking, asking especially that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives.
- We consider our plans for the day. We can now use our mental faculties with assurance.
- If we face indecision or we can’t determine what course to take, we ask God for inspiration, an intuitive thought or a decision. We relax and take it easy.
- We pray to be shown all through the day what our next step is to be, that we be given whatever we need to take care of problems.
- We ask especially for freedom from self-will. [We might also pray for help with specific defects or problem areas, and review our 10th step corrective measures for the day ahead.]
Prayers to be of Use
- We ask for guidance in the way of patience, kindness, tolerance and love especially within the family.
- We pray as to what we can do today for the person who is still sick. [We might also pray for specific people in need, or those with whom we’re angry.]
Spiritual/Religious Exercises
- If appropriate, we attend to our religious devotions, or say set prayers which emphasize 12 Step principles.
- We may read from a spiritual book.
Practicing the 11th Step Throughout the Day
- We pause, when agitated or doubtful, and ask for the right thought or action.
- We constantly remind ourselves we are no longer running the show, humbly saying to ourselves many times each day “Thy will be done.””
Source: 11th Step Guidelines
For the record, the first excerpt can be found in Melody Beattie‘s book “The Language of Letting Go”. I recommend getting the Kindle edition — it’s cheaper and you can view it on your computer, smartphone or Kindle. The second reading comes from Recovery.net which features a website and an android app…
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