Overcoming Perfectionism in a Culture That Promotes It

“Good enough is the new perfect.” ~Becky Beauprie Gillespie.

Get the rest here: Overcoming Perfectionism in a Culture That Promotes It | Tiny Buddha.

Worrying is blurrying…

notsalmon via Worrying is blurrying….

Remember this!

Olympic Gold Is Won With Guts

“Gold medals aren’t really made of gold. They’re made of sweat, determination, and a hard-to-find alloy called guts.” Dan Gable, an American wrestler who won gold at the 1972 Munich Olympic Games without surrendering a single point

via Quote: Olympic Gold Is Won With Guts | Greatist.

Outbelieve your limitations

notsalmon

via Outbelieve your limitations.

 

 

 

The Serenity Prayer

let’s talk about tattooing the serenity prayer on yourself « Stamp Tramps.

Inspired? Want more tattoo ideas? Click here

A reminder…

notsalmon

via A reminder….

 

 

 

Time heals all wounds – unless you pick at ‘em

notsalmon

via Time heals all wounds – unless you pick at ‘em.

Wishing you a ONE-derful day…

notsalmon

via Wishing you a ONE-derful day….

 

 

 

Use your a.m. to aim you happily into your day…

I have heard and often repeated that the first hour is the rudder of your day. Make the most of it!!!

via Use your a.m. to aim you happily into your day….

 

 

 

Use Envy To Get You Going!

notsalmon

via Use Envy To Get You Going!.

 

 

 

Here’s to the crazy ones…

 

Beautiful Steve Jobs quote poster – Holy Kaw!.

The power of happy stuff…

notsalmon

via The power of happy stuff….

Here’s a bonus song!!!

Have a “No CAN’T Do” attitude and DO!

notsalmon

via Have a “No CAN’T Do” attitude and DO!.

Why do I curate Karen Salmansohn’s [@notsalmon] ‘pattern interrupt’ posters so often?

Because they make me happy, plain and simple, and remind me of positive values. A mentor of mine once told me ‘never confuse the artist with the art’. In this case, however, it does not apply! Karen Salmansohn has mastered the art of pattern interrupts — positive flashcards — to remind me of what is truly important. Read her thoughts on her craft here:

“I believe that my posters work to inspire people to feel happier because they create what’s called “A Pattern Interrupt” – which is a proven psychological tool, recommended by practitioners of Neural Linguistic Programming, to help stop limiting beliefs.

If you saw the movie Shallow Hal, then you saw a Pattern Interrupt in action in that elevator scene – albeit a humorously reenacted example of a Pattern Interrupt. If you haven’t seen Shallow Hal, here’s a quickie synopsis: Tony and Jack get trapped in an elevator, and begin to talk about dating. Tony speedily discovers that Jack’s character engages in a limited thought pattern – stubbornly only dating stunning women for shallow reasons. Tony helps Jack to break his superficial thought pattern by surprising Jack with a clunk on his head – then shouting “Devils come out!” Sure enough, instantly a new mental window opens for Jack. He is now able to think about dating with a less shallow lens.

Other known methods for Pattern Interrupts have included: snapping a rubber band on your wrist, playing powerful music, being hit with unexpected comic relief, doing calming meditations, repeating positive affirmations – and reading an INSTANT HAPPY premium wall graphic! All these various Pattern Interrupts work like a “Thought Intervention” – creating a jiggling affect upon a person’s tightly held negative beliefs – then jumpstarting a new positive pattern of thought.

A Pattern Interrupt works in real life like this: Let’s say an event happens which puts you in a grumpy mood. If you’re not careful, your negative thoughts about this one solo circumstance can create a downward spiral, where you quickly go from merely thinking THIS ONE THING SUCKS to MY WHOLE DAY SUCKS to MY WHOLE LIFE SUCKS to THE WORLD SUCKS to DISTANT GALAXIES SUCK! Basically, without a Pattern Interrupt, a sad person can get grumpier, and an angry person can get grumblier!

There’s a famous Albert Einstein quote: “We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.” Well, Albert’s philosophy is a good explanation for why a Pattern Interrupt can snap you out of a negative thought loop. A Pattern Interrupt literally changes your brain’s energy state.

Here’s the neuroscientific scoop: MRI’s of the brain show that every time a person thinks angry thoughts or imagines worst-case scenarios, they literally send a surge of blood flowing into brain regions associated with depression and anger (the right prefrontal cortex) – thereby refueling depression and anger. Happily, MRI’s have also shown that when a person starts to think happy thoughts, they can send a surge of blood flowing into brain regions associated with happiness (the left prefrontal cortex) – thereby literally refueling your positivity.

Plus, recent studies on learning show that when you incorporate visuals into your learning process, you can better “record” a message into your permanent memory bank.

More of the neuroscientific scoop: When you put words within pictures, your brain immediately perks up in an effort to make sense of how/why these words relate to the picture – thereby stimulating more neuron activity. The more neurons you have firing up, the greater the chance that your brain is paying attention and recording what it is perceiving. This is why using flashcards with pictures help people to learn info better! Similarly, my INSTANT HAPPY posters work like Inspirational Flashcards – reminding you with a playful combo of stylish pictures and feisty words how best to live your happiest life!

I’ve joked in today’s uber-busy, espresso-chugging, hyper-active world, it’s often hard to find time to read an inspirational book – but – you always have time to read a poster.

Except, well, I’m not simply joking!” via Artwork – Karen Salmansohn.”

Click here to admire my collection and go to http://notsalmon.com to connect with her.

We all want the same 3 things…

notsalmon

via We all want the same 3 things….

Everything you’re presently angry about blocks you from seeing happiness

notsalmon

via Everything you’re presently angry about blocks you from seeing happiness..

The time has come to forgive your parents…

notsalmon

via The time has come to forgive your parents….

My hope for you…

notsalmon

via My hope for you….

No matter what happens in your day….

notsalmon

via No matter what happens in your day…..

Letting Go

 

Melody Beattie writes:

Stop trying so hard to control things. It is not our job to control people, outcomes, circumstances, and life. Maybe in the past we couldn’t trust and let things happen. But we can now. The way life is unfolding is good. Let it unfold.

Stop trying so hard to do better, be better, and be more. Who we are and the way we do things is good enough for today.

Who we were and the way we did things yesterday was good enough for that day.

Ease up on ourselves. Let go. Stop trying so hard.

Today, I will let go. I will stop trying to control everything. I will stop trying to make myself be and do better, and I will let myself be.” via Just For Today Meditations » Blog.

 

Start a Blog at WordPress.com.

Up ↑