Young Winston Churchill in uniform, 1895

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Don’t you miss “do-overs”?

Anderson Layman’s Blog via Don’t you miss “do-overs”?……….

What do people think about your idea?

Lead.Learn.Live. via T.G.I.F. w Dilbert.

Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs Updated

LOL. David Kanigan delivers again! Lead.Learn.Live. via Modernized Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs….

Daisy in the Dark

Pops Digital via Daisy in the Dark.

Dog Restrainer, 1940

Looks like a tool for rich people who want to own a dog but don’t actually want to touch it. What will they think of next? Source: LIFE Archive via Dog Restrainer, 1940.

A man must know his destiny

A man must know his destiny. If he does not recognize it, then he is lost. By this I mean, once, twice, or at the very most, three times, fate will reach out and tap a man on the shoulder. if he has the imagination, he will turn around and fate will point out to him what fork in the road he should take, if he has the guts, he will take it.” George S. Patton. via George S. Patton: A man must know his destiny : All SWAGGA.com.

Take It Slow

The Daily Love via Visual Inspiration: Take It Slow.

Listen Up! Your Body Has Something To Tell You This Weekend…

Listen to your body

The weekend is almost here, the finish line is waiting for you… you can do it!

If you’re crossing the line feeling a little worse for wear and carrying the load of the week on your back – your mind and body are probably calling out for some well-deserved rest…..however you have other plans.

There’s that amazing party tonight, spin class tomorrow morning, followed by lunch with friends, shopping, some work in the afternoon, drinks in the evening, your nieces birthday on Sunday and then dinner at your parent’s house. You’re exhausted just thinking about it, but it’s nothing that a bit of coffee and concealer can’t fix, right?

But then the next week comes and follows a similar pattern and the coffee and concealer aren’t doing the job and you feel a cold coming on. Sound familiar?

Why don’t we listen to our body when it’s telling us to slow down? We often think we can trick it into thinking we’re fine, but the truth is your mind and body are connected, so any stress felt in your mind, will also be felt in your body and vise versa.

So this weekend, if you feel your mind and body are begging for some respite, listen to what their synchronized little voices are saying! Even if you can only squeeze in an hour or two – your body will thank you for it!

Here’s a few of our favorite ways to give our mind and bodies a little lovin’:

  • Cancel any early morning classes or activities – wake up naturally, then treat yourself to breakfast in bed and snuggle up with a book. Don’t entertain any feelings of guilt for not going to that spin class!
  • Get in touch with nature – go for a walk in your favorite park or if you can, escape to the countryside or to the beach for a few hours. It’s amazing how quickly the cares of the week float away after a hike or when watching a sunset and becoming mesmerized by its beauty. Not only is this good therapy for the mind and body, it’s these precious moments where some of the best dreams or plans are born.
  • Avoid emotionally draining or negative people. Perhaps you have plans with a friend or family member who has a tendency to complain about their life in great detail every time you meet. After two coffees and a piece of cake with them, you end up leaving feeling deflated and heavy – and that’s not from the post sugar and caffeine come down either! Cancel your plans with them and stay at home and make yourself a cake instead!
  • Eat well and laugh with someone you love. Go to your favorite local restaurant with someone special and spend the afternoon putting the world to rights, eat some good food and most importantly, laugh!

What are your best ways to unwind? Tell us what sends you to your happy place!” via Listen Up! Your Body Has Something To Tell You This Weekend….

Step to Manhood #106

 

Step to Manhood #106 : All SWAGGA.com.

The self-esteem trap…

Anderson Layman’s Blog via The self-esteem trap………………..

Energy Vampires

Energy Vampires :: Cube Grenades from gapingvoid art.

The Breakfast Club

Pops Digital via The Breakfast Club.

In The Moment

swissmiss via In The Moment.

Always happy to see another post from you, Kristin! Thanks for the great ideas; simple and practical…

Change is the law of life

“For time and the world do not stand still. Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or the present are certain to miss the future.” John F. Kennedy via John F. Kennedy: Change is the law of life : All SWAGGA.com.

Vintage Weight Gain Ads II, 1908-1984

No need to worry about that any more now that we have plenty of high fructose corn syrup in our diets!

Retronaut. Get more here: Vintage Weight Gain Ads II, 1908-1984.

Most Effective Exercises To Burn Fat That Are Easy On Joints

As folks age or put on extra weight, exercises that are easy on the joints become more important. Keeping your joints healthy ensures you can remain physically active and can continue to conduct your daily activities. Arthritis, a disease that means “joint inflammation,” is common among people age 65 and older. About one in five people in the United States have arthritis. Participating in a low-impact physical activity can help manage symptoms and burn fat.” Get the answer here: Most Effective Exercises To Burn Fat That Are Easy On Joints | LIVESTRONG.COM.

The Gift of Readiness

Melody Beattie is one of America's most beloved self-help authors and a household name in addiction and recovery circles. Her international bestselling book, Codependent No More, introduced the world to the term "codependency" in 1986. Millions of readers have trusted Melody's words of wisdom and guidance because she knows firsthand what they're going through. In her lifetime, she has survived abandonment, kidnapping, sexual abuse, drug and alcohol addiction, divorce, and the death of a child. "Beattie understands being overboard, which helps her throw bestselling lifelines to those still adrift," said Time Magazine.Melody Beattie writes:

“Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.” Step Six of Al-Anon.

We progress to the Sixth Step by working diligently, to the best of our ability, on the first five Steps. This work readies us for a change of heart, an openness to becoming changed by a Power greater than ourselves — God.

The path to this willingness can be long and hard. Many of us have to struggle with a behavior or feeling before we become ready to let it go. We need to see, over and over again, that the coping device that once protected us is no longer useful.

The defects of character referred to in Step Six are old sur­vival behaviors that once helped us cope with people, life, and ourselves. But now they are getting in our way, and it is time to be willing to have them removed.

Trust in this time. Trust that you are being readied to let go of that which is no longer useful. Trust that a change of heart is being worked out in you.

God, help me become ready to let go of my defects of character. Help me know, in my mind and soul, that I am ready to let go of my self-defeating behaviors, the blocks and barriers to my life.” via June 28: The Gift of Readiness.

Sometimes and Sometimes Not; Honouring Who You Are and What You Need

Chela Davison writes:

Sometimes you need to think positive…

…and sometimes you need to sit your ass down in a dark corner with melancholy music on and bawl your effing eyes out for like four days.

Sometimes you need to sort out what’s happening inside yourself before you speak or act…

…and sometimes you need to splay the mess out there, all risky like, and allow the next step, insight or direction to show itself through real relating.

Sometimes you need to push yourself to ship or launch…

…and sometimes you need to relax and surrender into just how terrified you feel and flounder about a little longer and maybe even have a chuckle about the absurdity of the human experience.

Sometimes you need to be gentle and loving with yourself and others…

…and sometimes everyone needs a good swift kick in the ass, because what are we all doing here if not evolving in some way?

Sometimes you need to solve incredibly complex problems that are limiting your growth…

…and sometimes you just need a good night sleep.” Get more here: Sometimes and Sometimes Not…Honouring Who You Are and What You Need.

There is a time to every purpose under heaven…

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