The Oreo gay-pride cookie: Good for business?

The reaction: It’s pretty clear why Oreo is just one of a growing number of companies — JCPenney, for example — boldly embracing “gay pride as a business strategy,” says Tiffany Hsu at the Los Angeles Times. The gay community may be small, but it is vocal and willing to rally “support for companies deemed to be on their side.” You can bet it’s rushing out to buy Nabisco’s cookies. Not so fast, says Sheila Shayon at Brand Channel. Judging from “the maelstrom of divided comments” from Oreo’s 26 million Facebook followers, this could be bad for business. A growing boycott threat might teach Oreo that companies can pay a steep price for taking stands on divisive issues. Well, let the haters pursue their “shortsighted” boycott, says Neetzan Zimmerman at Gawker. Nabisco, part of parent company Kraft, makes a lot more than cookies. “Good luck eating your steak without A1 Steak Sauce, homophobes.” As for the rest of us: Let’s cross our fingers and hope Oreo will “make the rainbow cookie a reality.” See for yourself:

via The Oreo gay-pride cookie: Good for business? – The Week.

Party poopers

Heh, heh, heh… The Week: Most Recent Cartoons via Party poopers.

Telegraphic Spam was Extremely Common in the 19th Century

Today I Found Out via Telegraphic Spam was Extremely Common in the 19th Century.

The Doll House, Potato Island, MA

Hmmm. No satellite dish. Perfect!!! The Doll House, Potato Island, MA. Submitted by Colin Murtaugh. via The Doll House, Potato Island, MA. Submitted by Colin Murtaugh..

10 Great Geeky Tattoos

So, you love your tech and the web, but do you love it enough to permanently brand yourself with related imagery?

We’ve found 10 people that do. From corporate logos to other geeky graphic references, these folks have turned their fandom into skin art.

Have a browse through our gallery below and do let us know in the comments if you have any geeky tattoos, and why.” Get more here: 10 Great Geeky Tattoos [PICS].

Back during my 6 color Apple days I was seriously thinking about getting a tattoo like this on my left bicep. Now I’m glad I didn’t. How about you? Have any geeky tattoos?

Incredibly Simple 2-Step Program for Better Photos


Kudos to Bill Pevlor of PopsDigital — you see his images here all the time — for his recent post on Darren Rowse’s photography blog:

“I’ll be the first to concede, I am not a great photographer. The eternal optimist in me likes to think all things are possible. The pragmatist in me realizes I have a long way to go on my personal journey to photographic greatness. It may be a long way to go, but I’m on my way and serious about improving. I subscribe to photography magazines, glean articles and tutorials online and follow the work of some truly great photographers. All of that is valuable, but I’ve stumbled upon something that has dramatically improved my images more than everything else, combined.

I use an incredibly simple, two-step program. I revisit the plan every now and then and always gain something new. I believe it is essential for beginners, will advance the intermediate and can even boost top professionals a notch or two. As powerful as I believe this program is, it comes with a natural deterrent – its simplicity.

This program is so simple I’m afraid many will dismiss it without giving it a try. So, before I lay it out, take a moment to relax, inhale deeply, find your happy place and open your mind to a novel concept. Resist the urge to roll your eyes and scoff when you realize how simple it is. I guarantee, if you put it to the test and follow each step fully, your photos will immediately improve. (I’m already upgrading my account to handle all the flood of “Thank You” emails.)

Alright, enough of the sales pitch – let’s move on to my incredibly simple, two-step program for better photos. (Remember, no scoffing.)” Get his two step program here: Incredibly Simple 2-Step Program for Better Photos.

Spoiler alert! It all comes down to RTFM; ‘read the frikkin’ manual’. Life is all about the basics, no?

How to Know When to Change Course

It is easy to compare the Costa Concordia with the Titanic, another cruise liner disaster from long ago. But there are some key differences. And it is in those differences that we can learn a few lessons to navigate life.

First, the Titanic was built in an era of big ships but with no technology available for the captain to see his way ahead. Radar was decades away from development. So as the Titanic was built and launched, its claim to being unsinkable was predicated on the toughness of the hull of the ship.

It is not surprising that the crew could not see an iceberg that was large above the water line and much larger still below the water line. Back then they could only see what their eyes could see. (Interestingly, if they really believed the ship was unsinkable, why would watches even need to be posted?)

The Costa Concordia, on the other hand, had all the advantages of modern technology. It not only had radar to see above the water, it had depth finders and quite possibly even sonar. (I am not one hundred percent sure of that, but the technology certainly exists today.) The crew should have known how deep the waters were and, because of GPS where they were within thirty feet of accuracy.

Yet due to hubris and human error, the Costa Concordia was where it should not have been. And despite the technology, the crew ran aground, the ship foundered, and lives were lost.

There is so much to learn here about leadership and life. Let me suggest four:

  • When we cannot see clearly, we should exercise caution. The Titanic’s crew could not see that far ahead, but they proceeded without caution. We may feel tough. We may feel unsinkable. But if we don’t have clear vision, or if we cannot enunciate a clear vision, we are in danger if we rush ahead blindly.
  • When we don’t pay attention to feedback, we can run aground. The danger here is due to not recognizing the danger. Failure to seek feedback is folly. Failure to listen to it is foolishness.
  • When we have vision, we need to clarify it regularly. Instruments on aircraft or ships need to be calibrated to verify accuracy. In life, we need to clarify our vision repeatedly in order to insure that we are on track with where we want to go. A friend once told me if you profess to have vision but no one is following you, it is likely you merely had indigestion.
  • When we have clarity, we need to practice humility. Every person who is more confident in themselves than in the vision they espouse is vulnerable to prideful downfalls. Great leaders can crash in the blink of an eye.

We all make choices as we navigate life. We all have an impact on others, whether it is our family, friends or colleagues. It is vitally important for us to have a clear sense of ourselves, a clear sense of our relationship with the Eternal, and a clear sense of our relationships with those we influence. If we have that clarity we will see success, but if we don’t we may well crash on the rocks.” via How to Know When to Change Course | Michael Hyatt.

Let me suggest two more:

  • Captains shouldn’t try to impress chicks by buzzing the shoreline in a cruise ship and…
  • …when they run aground, the should be the last, not the first, off the ship!

In other words think twice before and after engaging in bad behavior…

The Path To Healing

Get more here: The Path To Healing – Step Eleven – Speak And Listen To The Uni-verse!.

Husbands, Scouring the Toilet Will Make You Happier… Really

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Men, consider this:

New research out of Cambridge University in the U.K. finds that husbands who do households chores are happier and experience greater wellbeing.

This finding surprised the researchers, who hypothesized that wives, not husbands, would be happier if their husbands did chores. Instead, they found that the husband’s chore contribution left the wife’s happiness “unmoved,” but did make the husbands themselves happier.

Researchers speculated that husbands who do chores might have discovered the joys, and art, of the “quiet life,” and the finding reflects this.

Or it could be that the chore-performing husbands simply get less friction, conflict and argument at home because they help out with chores, and this accounts for their happier state. The chores “buy” them a happy contentment with their wives, indirectly. Although if that were true, then you’d think that wives would be happier without the conflict and argument, too, and the study doesn’t find a similar happiness boost for the wife of the chore-dedicated husband.” via Husbands, Scouring the Toilet Will Make You Happier… Really | Psychology Today.

And then there’s always the choreplay aspect… :-D

100 Quotes on Sanctification

Without further ado . . . the randomly selected winner of the quote contest is Andrew Donth, who shared some Spurgeon with us. Here’s the quote:

Charles Spurgeon: “If he gives you the grace to make you believe, he will give you the grace to live a holy life afterward.” (Sermon, “Justification by Grace”)

Thanks to all of those who participated in the “send us a quote” contest that began on Monday. We have received hundreds on sanctification, the theme of our National Conference. There were so many that we literally cannot fit them into one blog post (I tried). So I’ve whittled the list down to 100 for you to spread or archive.” via 100 Quotes from You on Sanctification – Desiring God.

Mother Teresa, 1920s

Retronaut via Mother Teresa, 1920s.

Into Orbit

Melody Beattie writes:

“It doesn’t matter if they’re hurting themselves. It doesn’t matter that we could help them if they’d only listen to, and cooperate with, us. IT DOESN’T MATTER, DOESN’T MATTER, DOESN’T MATTER, DOESN’T MATTER.” Codependent No More

I think I can change him. Nobody’s ever really loved him and appreciated him before. I’ll be the one to do that, and then he’ll change.. .. She’s never been with anybody trust­worthy before. I’ll prove how trustworthy I am, and then she’ll be able to love. . . . Nobody’s been able to get to her, to conquer her, before. I’ll be the one to do that … Nobody’s ever really given him a chance. . . . Nobody’s ever really believed in him before….

These are warning signs. Red lights. Red flags. In fact, if we’re thinking these thoughts, they need to be stop signs.

If we have gotten hooked into believing that somehow we will be the one who will make the difference in someone’s life, if we are trying to prove how good we can be for some­one, we may be in trouble.

This is a game. A deception. It won’t work. It’ll make us crazy. We can trust that. We’re not seeing things clearly. Something’s going on with us.

It will be self-defeating.

We may be “the one” all right — the one to wind up victimized.

The whole thought pattern reeks of codependency, of not being responsible for oneself, and of victimization. Each per­son needs to do his or her own work.

Nobody in the past has really understood him…. Nobody has seen what I see in her…. It’s a set-up. It sets us up to stop paying attention to ourselves while we focus too much on the other person. It takes us away from our path and often puts us in orbit.

Nobody has appreciated him enough…. Nobody has been good enough to her, or done for her what I can do…. It’s a rescue. It’s a game move, a game we don’t have to play. We don’t have to prove were the one. If we’re out to show people we’re the best thing that ever happened to them, it may be time to see if they’re the best thing that ever happened to us.

We have not been appointed as guardian angel, god­mother, godfather, or “the one who will.”

The help, support, and encouragement that truly benefits others and ourselves emerges naturally. Let it.

God, help me let go of my need to meet dysfunctional challenges in my relationships.” via June 29: Into Orbit.

:-D

The New Yorker via Cartoon of the night. For more from this week’s….

Waiting on an epic scale

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And you thought the Port-a-John line at the music festival was long…

This mind-blowing shot was part of a blog post by Steve McCurry called “Simple Act of Waiting,” and shows what the Indian government estimated to be seventy million Hindus waiting to bathe in the Ganges at the Kumbh Mela Festival in 2001.

McCurry starts his piece with a quote we can all appreciate and which makes this photo all the more compelling:

“Of all the hardships a person had to face, none was more punishing than the simple act of waiting.” Khaled Hosseini, A Thousand Splendid Suns” via Waiting on an epic scale.

The Venn of Yoda

Holy Kaw! via The Venn of Yoda.

We’re Not Looking for Ideas

Chris Brogan writes:

Most times, when we search and scour the web, we tell ourselves that we’re looking for ideas. I don’t think this is actually true. Instead, I think we’re looking for one of two things: permission or a plan.” Get more here: We’re Not Looking for Ideas.

Stalin, 1902

via Retronaut. Get more here: Stalin, 1902.

Marketing vs. Advertising

Marketing shouldn’t be confused with advertising. Although these two terms are often used synonymously, they shouldn’t be.

We’re all marketers. Good or bad, we all market ourselves—often unconsciously—and hope that certain people look upon us favorably based on the image we project to the world. There are many fakers, but most individuals are authentic when marketing themselves. That’s because most people can detect individual insincerity and reject frauds accordingly.

Advertising is different. The motive behind (most) advertising is primarily financial. Thus, advertising itself is inherently tainted and, in many cases, disingenuous. But ads are everywhere in our heavily-mediated culture, so be careful. Proceed with caution.” via Marketing vs. Advertising.

Boastful

Pops Digital via Boastful.

It’s hot. I’m tired. I need a nap.

Heh, heh, heh… Lead.Learn.Live. via It’s hot. I’m tired. I need a nap..

Gardening…

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