The Ownership Matrix (What to Do When You’re Overwhelmed)

Shawn Blanc of The Sweet Setup has an interesting perspective on matrixed approach to getting back on track: “If you’re feeling overwhelmed, then perhaps you feel as though you have been given too much. In fact, you’ve been given so much that you’re to the point of feeling buried and drowning beneath a huge mass of stuff — from urgent issues, undone tasks, incoming requests of your time and energy, and more. As a result, you feel overpowered and defeated.” Go to the Source: The Ownership Matrix (What to Do When You’re Overwhelmed) – The Sweet Setup

How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone

Stop thinking about the person who hurt you. Learn how to stop obsessing over someone today so you can finally let go and move on. Source: How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone

Fearful-Avoidant Attachment and Romantic Relationships

Here’s what disorganized attachment can look like in your romantic relationship. Source: Fearful-Avoidant Attachment and Romantic Relationships

Overcoming Codependency: Breaking the Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships

Couples who struggle with codependency often try to control each other, and the result is a highly unhealthy relationship. Source: Overcoming Codependency: Breaking the Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships – Tiny Buddha

The Porcupine Dilemma: Schopenhauer’s Parable about Negotiating the Optimal Distance in Love

This is the supreme challenge of intimacy — how to reconcile the aching yearning for closeness with the painful pressures of actually being close, how to forge a bond tight enough to feel the warmth of connection but spacious enough to feel free. Source: The Porcupine Dilemma: Schopenhauer’s Parable about Negotiating the Optimal Distance in Love

Megan Rapinoe scores Olympic ‘Olimpico’ on corner kick

The current status of the USWNT is making me nostalgic for days gone by…

What Stands in Our Way of Being Happy?

Teacher and writer Tal Ben-Shahar on the routes and hurdles to happiness. Source: What Stands in Our Way of Being Happy?

In one word, what is the biggest destroyer of happiness?

Expectations: Why and How to Let Them Go

The Problem with Expectations

Expectations – we all have them. Whether it’s about our personal relationships, careers, or even daily routines, expectations shape the way we perceive and navigate the world. They can provide us with direction and motivation, but they can also have a dark side. In this blog post, we will explore the dangers of expectations and how they can hold us back from reaching our full potential.

Continue reading “Expectations: Why and How to Let Them Go”

How Gratitude May Mitigate Loneliness

Finding ways to overcome loneliness can improve health. Source: How Gratitude May Mitigate Loneliness

AI ethics teams lack ‘support, resources, and authority’

Because tech industry ethics teams lack resources and authority, their effectiveness is spotty at best, according to a new study. Source: AI ethics teams lack ‘support, resources, and authority’

Sinead O’Connor’s Legacy: The Art of Being Yourself

Why we curate attention yet resist being our authentic self. Source: Sinead O’Connor’s Legacy: The Art of Being Yourself

Nonviolence Begins Within

“There is always a linkage between the inner journey of contemplation and our ability to work against violence in the world, in our culture, and in ourselves. As long as we bring to our actions a violence that primarily exists within ourselves, nothing really changes. The future is always the same as the present. That’s why we have to change the present.” Source: Nonviolence Begins Within

In our minds

We don’t really hear what people say. We imagine what they mean. Byron Katie

Source: In our minds

AI as Cognitive Partner: A New Cognitive Age Dawns

“Like the mechanical advantage, today AI has become our cognitive advantage…

The technological implications of this cognitive revolution are significant. As AI becomes increasingly entwined with human cognition, it’s shifting from being a mere tool of convenience to a crucial partner in our cognitive explorations and manifestations.

AI is enhancing our cognitive abilities, enabling us to construct digital realities through sheer thought. Today, we (and technology) have reached a point where mere verbal prompts can yield hyper-realistic images and videos.

Such technological breakthroughs do not just represent an augmentation of human cognition; they are a testament to the paradigm shift in our understanding of the relationship between thought and reality.” Source: AI as Cognitive Partner: A New Cognitive Age Dawns

Saving Private Ryan; Ending Scene

I don’t know why, but every time I watch this clip I weep. “Tell me I’m a good man. Tell me I’ve lived a good life.” Isn’t this all every man wants to hear?

Revamp your sex life in 6 minutes

Is there a simple mindset shift that can radically improve our sex lives? One which can apply whatever our circumstances, experience or preferences? Yes! Sex coach Ruth Ramsay shares this shift, and how its ramifications go way beyond increasing our pleasure. Ruth Ramsay is an adult sex educator and coach. She helps people understand who they are sexually, how their bodies and minds work, what they need and desire, and how to communicate that. Her style is upbeat, shame-free and pleasure-led.

If you like Ruth’s perspective, you can find more on her website.

First Day in August

On the first day in August
I want to wake up by your side
After sleeping with you
On the last night in July

In the morning
We’ll catch the sun rising
And we’ll chase it from the mountains
To the bottom of the sea

When the day is over
And the night air comes to chill us
You’ll build a fire
And we’ll watch the flames dancing

You’ll fall asleep
With your arm around my shoulder
And nothing will come between us
On the first night in August
The first day in August

Cage Studies: How Environment Shapes Drinking Habits

What caged animals can teach you about overcoming excessive drinking. Go to the source for an interesting perspective on environment and drinking: Cage Studies: How Environment Shapes Drinking Habits

How to Be Resilient When You Are Highly Sensitive

These five strategies help in difficult situations. Source: How to Be Resilient When You Are Highly Sensitive

Devil’s Lake State Park (Wisconsin)

Devil’s Lake State Park is a state park located in the Baraboo Range in eastern Sauk County, just south of BarabooWisconsin. It is around thirty-five miles northwest of Madison, and is on the western edge of the last ice-sheet deposited during the Wisconsin glaciation.[2] The state park encompasses 9,217 acres (3,730 ha),[3] making it the largest in Wisconsin.[4] The state park is known for its 500-foot-high (150 m) quartzite bluffs along the 360-acre (150 ha) Devil’s Lake, which was created by a glacier depositing terminal moraines that plugged the north and south ends of the gap in the bluffs during the last ice age approximately 12,000 years ago. The sand at the bottom of Devil’s Lake is thought to be deposited by glaciers.

There are many quartzite rock formations, such as Balanced Rock and Devil’s Doorway, throughout the park. Effigy mounds are also located throughout the park. The park contains approximately eleven miles of the 1,200-mile (1,900 km) Ice Age Trail.[5] Its scenic beauty, along with its proximity to the Wisconsin Dells, has made it one of the most popular of Wisconsin’s state parks for both day use and overnight camping; the park receives over three million visitors annually.[6] During the fall, the park’s brilliant foliage makes it a popular attraction. Parfrey’s Glen, Wisconsin’s first state natural area, is managed by the Devil’s Lake State Park and located just east of the park.” Go to the source to learn more: Devil’s Lake State Park (Wisconsin) – Wikipedia

While hiking here Saturday I realized that my first trip here was exactly 50 years ago with my family of origin and my best friend from high school. Some 35 years later, I brought my own family here.

This past weekend, I was able to share the experience again with a beautiful friend. I’m so grateful that this place as been a part of my life that long and that I was able to share it with her as well. I think I will file that under ‘saving the best for last’…

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