It’s how you try to get those needs met that causes problems. Source: What You Need in Your Marriage Isn’t the Problem
What You Need in Your Marriage Isn’t the Problem
5 Things to Know About Setting Boundaries
Here are some things to consider as you initiate and reinforce boundaries. Source: 5 Things to Know About Setting Boundaries
The Agony of Anxious Attachment and How to Attract Better Relationships via @TinyBuddha
If you’re in a toxic cycle of anxiously clinging to people with avoidant attachment styles, this might help you break your pattern. Source: The Agony of Anxious Attachment and How to Attract Better Relationships – Tiny Buddha
Research Shows What Questions to Ask to Get Honest Answers
A recent review of research on deception. Source: Research Shows What Questions to Ask to Get Honest Answers
The Woman Who Made Online Dating Into a ‘Science’
Almost 20 years ago, Helen Fisher helped revolutionize dating. She has no regrets. Source: The Woman Who Made Online Dating Into a ‘Science’ (Hint: Load this article into an incognito page to bypass the Atlantic paygate.)
Celebrating Men: Examining Helping Behavior
Finally! A psychologist that’s sharing a positive perspective on men: “The different ways men and women assist others”. Source: Celebrating Men: Examining Helping Behavior
Helping is smart because it’s the right thing to do, but there’s always this…
And this…
Every Marriage Is a Bait and Switch
Complaining that our partner has changed since we married misses the point. Source: Every Marriage Is a Bait and Switch
Breakups Always Hurt, but You Can Shorten the Suffering
Another good article from Arthur Brooks. This time? Three steps to get over your ex. Source: Breakups Always Hurt, but You Can Shorten the Suffering
What a Healthy Partnership Looks Like
For those who don’t have a good reference in their own lives. Source: What a Healthy Partnership Looks Like
10 Basic Needs Men Have In Relationships
Wait…do guys have feelings too?! Source: 10 Basic Needs Men Have In Relationships
Why Discord, Paradoxically, Is Vital in Close Relationships
“Fierce intimacy” may be the safest route to emotional vulnerability. Source: Why Discord, Paradoxically, Is Vital in Close Relationships
Conversation Starters
It seems inevitable that with time away from screens and stress, and time spent in nature, we start reflecting on larger themes and questions in our lives, and we start asking our loved ones deeper questions. Here are some of our favorite questions to ask to get to know our family and friends better. Source: Our Favorite Conversation Starters – Getaway Journal
Estrangement: The Silent Epidemic
Despite its prevalence, stigma and shame can exacerbate the pain and loss. Source: Estrangement: The Silent Epidemic
Why community matters so much — and how to find yours
A community can serve as a social safety net, but finding one and becoming a part of it is different from simply making friends. Source: Why community matters so much — and how to find yours
Why You Need to Be Happy Alone to Be Close to Another Person
Being with others to avoid being alone will not bring you intimacy. Source: Why You Need to Be Happy Alone to Be Close to Another Person
Weird Little Noises Are What a Great Relationship Sound Like
No one other than your partner may know what you’re saying, but that’s exactly the point. Source: Weird Little Noises Are What a Great Relationship Sound Like
Why the Secrets You Keep Are Hurting You
My partner always says ‘you’re only as sick as the secrets you keep’. True? She’s always right. :-D
Go to the source: Why the Secrets You Keep Are Hurting You
Why Gender Pronouns Matter via @malamatacin
What are your pronouns? Fifty percent of Americans are uncomfortable asking this question but using gender-neutral pronouns and language can create inclusion and help deconstruct the gender binary. Based on interviews with gender diverse people, psychology professor calls for allyship by sharing ways we can act to create gender inclusive spaces and see each other more deeply. “Watch what you say.”
“Be careful how you say it.”
These phrases have even more of an impact today…
What’s Your Emotional Range?
Are you truly living or merely surviving? Source: What’s Your Emotional Range?
What Cats Can Teach Us About Love
I’ve learned alot from cats — especially detachment! Eckhart Tolle said ‘I have met many Zen masters in my life. Most of them cats!’ and I agree. Psychologist John Amodeo shares this: ‘A personal perspective: loving and losing a cherished companion’. Go to the source: What Cats Can Teach Us About Love
8 Signs of Emotional Neglect in Your Family
The emotionally neglectful family may look fine, but it is not. Source: 8 Signs of Emotional Neglect in Your Family
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