It’s better to be alone than wish you were

Why Does It Hurt to Feel Lonely?

Understanding the factors associated with loneliness can help you manage it. Source: Why Does It Hurt to Feel Lonely?

Why Are Millennials the Loneliest Generation?

Technology use comes with pros and cons. Here’s a tip for feeling less lonely. Source: Why Are Millennials the Loneliest Generation?

Suicide, loneliness are an American epidemic. How can it be stopped?

“My husband committed suicide in 2008. Both of my boys attempted suicide and one has been missing since 2015. Here’s how building resilience has changed my life.” Source: Suicide, loneliness are an American epidemic. How can it be stopped?

Embrace Solitude—for Your Health

You will gain self-reflection, calm, and connectedness with some alone time. Source: Embrace Solitude—for Your Health

“I Have Nobody:” The Loneliness Health Crisis

Loneliness impacts wellness. Here are some potential solutions. Source: “I Have Nobody:” The Loneliness Health Crisis

Couples Have “The One”; Singles Have “The Ones”

Emotionally and practically, having “the ones” can be a very good thing. Source: Couples Have “The One”; Singles Have “The Ones”

Relational Trauma Impacts on Dating and Marriage

Exploring emotional baggage in romantic relationships when we endure trauma. Source: Relational Trauma Impacts on Dating and Marriage

12 (Stoic) Remedies For Feeling Lonely Or Depressed

“Nearly two thousand years ago, Stoic philosophers were also trying to find peace. Marcus Aurelius, the Roman emperor, made it a point to spend time alone with his journal every morning before dawn. Epictetus, the former slave turned philosopher, admonished his students to constantly keep in mind that “Men are disturbed not by things, but by the principles and notions which they form concerning things.” For the Stoics, practicing philosophy was a necessity. Something they could constantly come back to to remind themselves what was in their control and help them view outside events with more detachment. And this is why the writings of the Stoics have endured for so long and continue to teach people from all walks of life how to be less reactive, more reflective, and more level-headed.”

4 Clear Signs to Call Your Relationship Quits

The breaking points for when it’s time to bid adieu to your relationship. Source: 4 Clear Signs to Call Your Relationship Quits

Are You Destined to Be Single and Alone Forever?

10 things that could be keeping you unattached. Source: Are You Destined to Be Single and Alone Forever?

Exercise to Manage the Winter Blues

Getting started can feel difficult, but movement can help your mood. Source: Exercise to Manage the Winter Blues

The Challenge of Closeness: Alain de Botton on Love, Vulnerability, and the Paradox of Avoidance

The psychological machinery of our commonest coping mechanism for the terror of hurt, rejection, and abandonment. Source: The Challenge of Closeness: Alain de Botton on Love, Vulnerability, and the Paradox of Avoidance

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The Double Flame: Octavio Paz on Love

“Love is a bet, a wild one, placed on freedom. Not my own; the freedom of the Other… A knot made of two intertwined freedoms.” Source: The Double Flame: Octavio Paz on Love

Hedgehog’s Dilemma: Why You Avoid Intimacy Even Though You Crave It

The closer you get, the more it can hurt. Source: Hedgehog’s Dilemma: Why You Avoid Intimacy Even Though You Crave It

When being alone is a choice…

“Self-imposed social isolation is a complex issue. I know it’s complex because I’ve experienced it myself. And to be honest, I’m still experiencing it to a certain degree. This video explores social isolation and why being alone isn’t always by accident: it’s often a choice.” says the Einzelganger…

#Loneliness is not a personal failing

The U.S. Surgeon General has issued a public health advisory about the dangers of loneliness, saying it impacts half of all American adults. Source: “Loneliness is not a personal failing”: Dartmouth Health psychologist offers advice for forging connection, feeling better

The Cure for Loneliness Is Solitude

If you can’t get out of loneliness, get into it. Source: The Cure for Loneliness Is Solitude

How Being Alone Made Me Fall in Love with Myself

“For the first time in ages, I was at peace. I felt whole, not like some fractured version of myself. I was alone but not lonely.” Source: How Being Alone Made Me Fall in Love with Myself – Tiny Buddha

February is Loneliness Awareness Month

Loneliness is connected to increased rates of anxiety, depression, and suicide. It is also linked to increased rates of dementia, heart disease, elevated blood pressure and diabetes. Source: February is Loneliness Awareness Month

Countering loneliness with connection and personal agency 

Sarah Zhang writes “While students feel lonely on an individual level, the high percentage of those who report feeling lonely reflect a collective failure to adequately recognize the issue and provide support. To mitigate the impacts of loneliness, we must fundamentally reframe how we view it.” Source: Countering loneliness with connection and personal agency 

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