Let it go, they say when you screw up. Move on, forget about it, what’s done is done. No, says a recent study, you need to feel bad in order to learn. Source: Why It’s Good to Feel Bad When You Make a Mistake

Scrambled eggs are easy to make, but they’re kind of difficult to make perfectly. Rubbery, dry curds are no good, but runny scrambles can be just as offensive. Don’t worry though, we’re going to show you how to make perfect scrambled eggs every time, no matter how you like ‘em. Source: How to Make Perfect Scrambled Eggs, No Matter How You Like Them

It’s not what you think, here’s what to do instead. Source: 3 Essential Secrets to Writing & Selling a Popular Book | Psychology Today

The National Alliance on Mental Illness’ Mental Illness Awareness Week is October 1-7, 2017. Here are some ways to get involved! Go to the Source: Say No To Shame: 4 Ways to Support Mental Illness Awareness Week | Peaceful Dumpling

This video doesn’t begin in with a couple of dudes tinkering with machines in their garage; nor does it begin with a WWII counter-intelligence action. It begins with the abacus and moves on from there.

Source: A history of computing – Holy Kaw!

“This above all: to thine own self be true. And it must follow, as night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man.” ~William Shakespeare Source: What It Means to Be Loyal to Yourself and Why We All Need to Do It

Including Oprah’s latest audiobook, a 101 guide to Buddhist philosophy, and the manual that should come with every social media account. Source: 9 Audiobooks That Promote Self-Love – mindbodygreen

One of the first posts from my friend in Germany. Please follow her blog and share her content…

I always feel good when I find a piece of music worth a David Kanigan reblog!

This guitar player is something special. Few guitarists could manage a beastly three-in-one guitar like this, let alone make an incredible cover of Gorillaz’s “Feel Good, Inc.” Source: Incredible 3-necked guitar cover of “Feel Good, Inc.” – Holy Kaw!

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The human reaction to fear and stress and how we are resilient in the end. Source: Pushing Forward by Not Living in Fear After a Violent Attack | Psychology Today

Why is marriage in retreat among young Americans? Because it is now much easier for men to find sexual satisfaction outside marriage, argues Mark Regnerus. Source: Cheap Sex and the Decline of Marriage – WSJ

October is the best month of the year. If you disagree, you are wrong. Source: A definitive, absolutely correct, unquestionable ranking of the months of the year

The people want Ramona. Source: Cat frenzy on NPR’s Facebook was actually caused by a post about a baby, not a cat

A frequent question in my counseling practice and from website subscribers is “Do narcissists and borderlines get better with age?” Another common question is, “What happens when they get old and are no longer attractive?” These are understandable questions. People don’t grow out of personality disorders. If that was going to happen, it would’ve happened […] via Can Narcissists Change? — Shrink4Men

You do not have to be good. You do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert repenting. You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves. Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine. Meanwhile the world goes on. […] via Mary Oliver, Wild Geese — Wild Gods