GIVE and FORGIVE

Occupy Your SELF. Occupy Your Soul. Occupy Your Life. Occupy Now!

Each and every one of us have the power to make a difference.

We are powerful beyond measure.

You may not be able to change your spouse. Your parents. Your friends. Or your boss.

But what you can change is yourself.

This is the ultimate power. The ability to change you.

By changing yourself you will have an impact on those around you. By changing yourself you change your world, and in doing making a difference.

In order to truly lead others you must first be able to lead yourself.

This is the power that no one can take from you. This is what you are in control of.

Part of owning your power is to take full responsibility for YOUR life. Sometimes trying to get another person or thing to change seems easier, as it diverts the attention away from what you most need to change in yourself.

Responsibility can be a scary thing at times. Once you own this, there are no longer any excuses. Victimhood is no longer an option.

If you want to do your part in making a difference on the planet. Start by taking inventory. Take an honest look at your life, and acknowledge where you are not living in alignment. Be truthful about where you are not living in integrity. Also, acknowledge the patterns, addictions, behaviors, that no longer serve you and stop you from being your highest self.

Perhaps it’s an addiction to a drug, an unhealthy pattern, such as drama, lying, manipulating, fear, or critical self judgement. Or to an abusive relationship. Perhaps your house is a mess, or your finances.

What is it that you need to shift?  What is it that you need to let go of? What is it that you need to embrace more of and love about you? What is it in yourself or your life that you have the power to change?

You may not be able to change what is outside, but you can definetly change what is inside yourself. You may not be president of your country, but you are president of your life.

It is great to protest for peace in the streets. But let us remember to bring peace and compassion to the dark places we despise within ourselves. It is great to clean up the environment, but let us also clean up our consciousness, and our toxic thoughts.

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Set Yourself Free!!!

“It is our choices…that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities”

– J. K. Rowling

Set Yourself Free!!!

“Persons of high self-esteem are not driven to make themselves superior to others; they do not seek to prove their value by measuring themselves against a comparative standard. Their joy is being who they are, not in being better than someone else.”

– Nathaniel Branden

Set Yourself Free!!!

“We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms — to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”

– Viktor Frankl, was an Austrian neurologist and psychiatrist as well as a Holocaust survivor.

Wake Up…

Ives on Jobs

ACT on your Faith!!

How to Be Your Own Therapist and Solve the More Manageable Problems in Your Life

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Therapy is no doubt a helpful tool when you have problems to overcome, and one of the primary strategies therapists use to uncover and solve your issues involves identifying common behavioral patterns. But you don’t always need a therapist to recognize and correct an unhealthy pattern in your life. Here’s a primer for how you can solve the problems that don’t require professional help.

The world is good at creating patterns and we have an innate ability for picking them up. As we grow, our experience becomes a giant database of information and we make associations between similar events and occurrences as a way of understanding the world. While recognizing these patterns can be an incredibly helpful tool for solving our own issues, we’re much better at recognizing them in others than we are in ourselves. We also have a tendency to see patterns where we want to see them, even when they aren’t really there. We enlist the help of therapists because they’re trained to connect the behavioral dots, but with a little work we can hone our pattern recognition skills and solve many of our own problems. In this post we’ll give you a basic introduction to how pattern recognition works, how you can use it to investigate your issues, and what you need to watch our for so you don’t identify any patterns incorrectly.

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Today’s the day…

…that our boney old dairy cattle go to meet their maker! We have no expectations of getting any decent meat off these two so we’ll chalk it all up to another failed experiment in hobby farming. So long Jordan and Pippen — our Chicago Bulls… :-)

World’s Most Absurd Warning Signs And Disclaimers

I’ve lived and worked in Wisconsin…

…for nearly 15 years now but never took the time to explore the Kettle Moraine until last Saturday. It’s a pretty amazing place, although the fall foliage is pretty tapped out for now. Here’s a view from the top of Parnell Tower. Make a note now to check it out next year…

Happy Halloween!

What is the meaning of life?

You are PERFECT Just The Way YOU ARE!!

Take Responsibility

“My life changed when I stopped waiting for someone to rescue me and began taking responsibility for myself.” I haven’t heard this statement from just one person. I’ve heard it from thousands, including myself

Gratitude Focus: We usually don’t have the power to control what’s going on around us, but we can be grateful that we always have the power to hunker down and take care of ourselves.

Live this day as if you were given super powers to succeed at everything you do

Feeling negative? Cut it out. Literally.

Happiness is not about what happens to you…

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