LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!

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Step one: self-Love – Step two: true Love

Mastin Kipp writes:

If you’re looking for a truly Loving relationship, it is very difficult to be in a relationship with someone who isn’t on the path to self-love. We don’t have to love ourselves perfectly to find awesome love, but we have to be on the path to self-love. This also means that whomever we choose to be in a relationship with should be on that path, too.

There will never be a perfect moment where we love ourselves perfectly and then we can be in a relationship. It’s a constant process of discovery with no end. But for a relationship to thrive and for intimacy to emerge, each person must be dedicated to growth; otherwise, you will hit a wall.

A huge revelation for me recently has been that nobody, including myself, is perfect. It sounds obvious when I write it, but for many years I would meet people and project this expectation of perfection on to them. And I would get mad, angry and hurt when they wouldn’t meet that expectation. So, I’ve recently decided that from the beginning of any relationships I start, that I want to acknowledge my own imperfection as well as the imperfection of the other person and consciously choose to enter into a relationship not seeking perfection, but rather loving each other’s imperfections. And instead of looking to the other person to meet all our needs perfectly, to take our eyes off of ourselves and put them on The Uni-verse.

Source: Step one: self-Love – Step two: true Love

Sunday Morning: Hy Snell

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“Get Old” Hy Snell, 94 from Variable on Vimeo.


“Hy Snell, 94, is an energetic and awe-inspiring gentleman. When asked how he felt about aging, Hy couldn’t even comprehend why we were interested in the topic. It was as if “age” didn’t even exist in his world. For Hy, “age” has had nothing to do with his joy and contentment in life. His immense passion for creating artwork has kept him moving forward without looking back for over seven decades despite his ongoing battle with failing eyesight. At 94 years-old and a dwindling 5% of his eyesight remaining, Hy continues to find inspiration due to the fact that he is literally seeing things differently every day. This fact spoke volumes to us since it is relatable on so many levels. In summary, Hy truly is a living testament who proves that each road block, as tough as it may…

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3 Powerful Questions That Can Transform Any Situation

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Every situation challenges us to step up to the plate and be love manifested. If you think the world is against you, it’s because you’ve already answered your own disempowering questions, instead of asking the open, challenging ones.

“Life doesn’t give you the people you want. It gives you the people you need: to assist you, to hurt you, to love you, to leave you, & to make you the person you were meant to be.” — Unknown

Get the questions here: 3 Powerful Questions That Can Transform Any Situation | Preston Smiles

My journey to yo-yo mastery; BLACK

Remember the days you struggled just to make a yo-yo spin, and if you were really fancy, to “walk the dog”? You ain’t seen nothin’ yet. Japanese yo-yo world champion BLACK tells the inspiring story of finding his life’s passion, and gives an awesome performance that will make you want to pull your yo-yo back out of the closet.

Twice the world yo-yo champion, BLACK mixes dance, sport and performance to create unforgettable yo-yo moments.

via BLACK: My journey to yo-yo mastery | Video on TED.com.

Tootsie = Epiphany

Good catch, David. Now, step away from the keyboard and I’ll do the same! Go play outside… :-D

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This emotional three minute interview with Dustin Hoffman has gone viral on Youtube.  Hoffman said he’d initially had doubts about making the movie Tootsie unless he could be made to look like a beautiful woman.  In the moment he was told that he was as attractive as he was going to get as a woman, the actor said he had an epiphany.

“I went home and started crying, talking to my wife, and I said, ‘I have to make this picture,’” Hoffman said, choking up as he recalled his reaction. “And she said, ‘Why?’ And I said, ‘Because I think I’m an interesting woman, when I look at myself on-screen, and I know that if I met myself at a party I would never talk to that character because she doesn’t fulfill, physically, the demands that we’re brought up to think women have to have in order for us to…

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SMWI*: “It’s not funny”

A psa on the dangers of exercise?

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Some, very funny.  Some, not. Some, clearly manufactured for TV. Strong finish.


  • SMWI* = Saturday Morning Work-Out Inspiration
  • The posting of this clip is inspired by Brenda @ space2live.

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Music For Saturday

I drove over a thousand miles last week all over Wisconsin and back, got home past midnight and woke up at 5 [!@#$ birds!]; thank you for this PERFECT SONG FOR THIS MOMENT! :-D

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Seeking Qualified Candidates Only

Wow!

I can’t believe I’m getting 4G speeds traveling between Green Bay and Minneapolis!

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Heeling full sail

LOL…

My friend Nilofer and her son picked out this nifty mug for me via Facebook. How cool — all I had to do was provide the address where I wanted to receive it. Thanks, Andrew and Nilofer…

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What “IS” this?

True dat!

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Stephan Vanfleteren Portrait of Hugo Raes

I came from brilliancy

And return to brilliancy.

What is this?

– Hoshin


Sources: Haiku – Thank you Whiskey River.  Hugo Raes Portrait by Stephan Vanfleteren 

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20 lessons learned in my first 80 years

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Byron Wien

Byron Wien grew up in Chicago during the Depression.  “He was orphaned at 14 and overcame a difficult childhood to attend Harvard undergrad and business school.  He recently turned 80, and in response to a request from a conference organizer moments before he was supposed to speak, Wien committed to paper some ideas which surely contributed to his success, but more important, they are lessons that shaped such a rich and remarkable life.”  Here are a few excerpts:

  1. Network intensely.  Luck plays a big role in life, and there is no better way to increase your luck than by knowing as many people as possible.  Nurture your network by sending articles, books and emails to people to show you’re thinking about them.  Write op-eds and thought pieces for major publications.  Organize discussion groups to bring your thoughtful friends together.
  2. Read all the time.  Don’t just do it because you’re curious about…

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Minnesota Town Has 4-year Old Mayor…

Supporting a candidate like this might get me interested in politics again…

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50 Science Misconceptions…

Tiny cabin in Chester, New York, USA

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I am a survivor. Not a victim.

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Bluff Hut in Alpine National Park, Australia.

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The lonely cabin…

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It hasn’t been easy…

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