What I regret most in my life are failures of…

“What I regret most in my life are failures of kindness.” Yes…

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READ THIS.  You will not be disappointed.  It started my day off on the right foot.


From George Saunders’ 2013 “Advice to Graduates” commencement speech @ Syracuse University:

“…Now, one useful thing you can do with an old person, in addition to borrowing money from them, or asking them to do one of their old-time “dances,” so you can watch, while laughing, is ask: “Looking back, what do you regret?”  And they’ll tell you.  Sometimes, as you know, they’ll tell you even if you haven’t asked.  Sometimes, even when you’ve specifically requested they not tell you, they’ll tell you.

So: What do I regret?  Being poor from time to time?  Not really.  Working terrible jobs, like “knuckle-puller in a slaughterhouse?”  (And don’t even ASK what that entails.)  No.  I don’t regret that.  Skinny-dipping in a river in Sumatra, a little buzzed, and looking up and seeing like 300…

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American Minute for August 1st

English: Illustration from an early edition of...Bill Federer writes:

“There she blows!” cried the lookout, sighting Moby Dick.

Captain Ahab, driven by revenge, sailed the seas to capture this great white whale, who had bitten off his leg in a previous encounter.

The crew of the ship Pequod included Quaker chief mate Starbuck, second mate Stubb, Captain Boomer, a tattooed Polynesian harpooner named Queequeg, and Ishmael, the teller of the tale.

Ahab finally caught up with Moby Dick in the Pacific Ocean.

As fate would have it, when the harpoon struck Moby Dick, the rope flew out so fast it entangled Ahab, pulling him under.

This classic was written by Herman Melville, born AUGUST 1, 1819.

Continue reading: William J Federer’s American Minute for August 1st.

I read Melville’s classic during a vacation on the east coast where I visited places from the story like the Seamen’s Bethel in New Bedford and the island of Nantucket. If you’ve never read this classic story, give Netflix a rest this weekend and get a copy. The book is in the public domain so you can download it at no cost and read it on the very device you’re using now via Kindle software

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Melanie’s Biggest Secret!

Melanie, I love your blog and I see the journey continues; even though you are not on EL Camino, you’re still on a Camino in your own mind…

To me, the trick of this social media thing is to find what Aristotle called ‘the golden mean’ — the virtuous path between two vices — or what Buddhists call ‘the middle way’ between NOT telling your story and OVERTELLING your story. The golden mean between hiding your light under a bushel and narcissism. It’s a daily challenge…

Keep blogging!!!

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How to make yourself COMPLETELY miserable…Guaranteed!

Who Binds You?

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Who binds you?
A monk asked Seng ts’an, “Master, show me the way to liberation.”
Seng ts’an replied, “Who binds you?”
The monk responded, “No one binds me.”
Seng ts’an said, “Then why do you seek liberation?”


Credits: Image – Madam Scherzo. Quote:  whiskeyriver.blogspot.com.  This is an Ancient koan / teaching story.  Seng Ts’an is the third Zen ancestor in China.

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What wisdom can…

What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?

Jean-Jacques Rousseau Quotes – BrainyQuote

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Following Your Passion is Beautiful

Pacific City, Oregon

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Pacific City | Oregon from Ian Langenhuysen on Vimeo.


2 minutes from 6pm to Sunset on the Oregon Coast.  Music appropriately titled “Happy” by Secrets in Stereo.  Inspiring…

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“As soon as you…

“As soon as you pick up the hot-coal (become angry or vengeful) it burns you before you to hurt your “enemy” with it and you quickly drop it out of pain. Meanwhile, the person who wronged you is untouched, and you’re the one left with an even greater, deeper, throbbing-pain. No one gets hurt by our anger except ourselves. Buddhism helped me realize that by not forgiving others, I was giving them control over my peace and happiness. I had inadvertently tied my mental and emotional stability to the whims of their egos. I had surrendered my sense of happiness to, ironically, the very people that had hurt me initially!!”

The Buddhist Blog: Forgiveness Brings Peace.

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