Focus on What You Want

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If you have children, this explains alot!

Calvin and Hobbes

http://www.gocomics.com/calvinandhobbes/2014/04/02#.Uzvr1fldXE0

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“When you find yourself drowning in self hate…”

Now I Am Wiser

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I’m stronger because I had to be. I’m smarter because of my mistakes. I’m happier because of the sadness I’ve known. NOW I am wiser because I learned. — Unknown

Now I am wiser

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Rich Roll on the ‘Two Wolves’ podcast…

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Stressed? Kiss it out!

Although a number of factors were examined, key differences were seen with relationship satisfaction, stress, and cholesterol. Specifically, over the six-week period, individuals who increased their frequency of kissing reported lower levels of stress and higher levels of relationship satisfaction. Importantly, their physiological assessments of cholesterol, via blood draws, decreased.

The results further underscore the importance of kissing in relationships. Uniquely, cholesterol levels decreased – an important finding given the health complications associated with cholesterol. In fact, numerous recommendations are often offered from healthcare providers to improve cholesterol pertaining to diet and exercise. Findings here suggest that an additional, and fun, behavior in the form of kissing might be added to that list. Thus, the next time you’re stressed, consider making some time for your partner for a potentially productive make-out session.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/adventures-in-dating/201403/stressed-kiss-it-out

The paradox of choice

Decide on Love

Tara Brach has a nice article in Psychology Today. It says in part:

“We have to choose presence with each other, over and over and over,” she told me. “We have to choose presence when we’re angry, presence when we aren’t in the mood to listen, presence when we’re alone and running the same old stories about how the other is wrong. Choosing presence is our way of opening our hearts.”

Get the rest of the article here: Decide on Love | Psychology Today.

Forgiveness is Freedom

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Just Perfect

Yes, I am. Yes, you are…

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I’m on the train, returning home, and rifling through blog posts on my reader.
My index finger pauses. Then stops.
You are perfect.
I stare.
You are perfect.
I am Perfect.
I am Perfect?
Who believes this nonsense?

No breakfast: And 1 granola bar for lunch. (No calorie diet after weekend gorging.)

No 8 glasses of water a day: Try zero. Zero liquids. (A head scratcher. Is that even possible? Are you a camel? An Android?)

No waiting for Walk Signals: I jaywalk in a criss-crossing of Manhattan streets, sheets of freezing rain slapping my trench coat. Eye glasses wet and fogging. (March 31. Please, Please make it Be Spring.)

No shortage of stupidity. I rub the rain-splashed-grime off the toe caps of my shoes with my hands, and instinctively reach for my suit pants. Black shoe polish. (I look around to see if anyone is watching.  Just me…

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I Come From The Land Of What Ifs

Get the rest of the article here: I Come From The Land Of What Ifs.

Forget your Perfect

Mmmm…

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Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack in everything
That’s how the light gets in
That’s how the light gets in
That’s how the light gets in.

~ Leonard Cohen, Anthem


Credits: Thank you Cher @ the Chicago Files for the Cohen lyrics. Thank you Carol for image.


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Our doubts are traitors…

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You cannot teach a man anything…

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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future

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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future.

Resting in reason and moving in passion

Mmmm…

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So many people glorify and romanticize “busy”.
I do not.
I value purpose.
I believe in resting in reason and moving in passion.
If you’re always busy/moving, you will miss important details.
I like the mountain.
Still, but when it moves lands shift and earth quakes.

~ Joseph Cook


Image Credit Harald Naper of 047 Vråvatn, Telemark, Norway via Hungarian Soul. Poem Credit: Joseph Cook

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Make you feel my love…

Miscellaneous Algoma sunrise shots

Sunrises are God’s gift to early risers — I’m so blessed that these views are just 3 blocks away! I thought this morning would be good so I rushed down to Christmas Tree Point in Algoma to grab these. Click the image to enlarge and/or reblog…

Letting Go of Yesterday: Guided Meditation

Letting Go of Yesterday: Guided Meditation – Purpose Fairy.

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