How Blaming Your Partner Can Help YOU Work Through Your BS

What should I do if my spouse always blames me for things?

I wish that I owned this advice…

Old man strength

Don’t trust a book by its cover, the old saying goes. And for that …

Source: Professional weightlifter dresses up as old man, challenges lifters at Muscle Beach – Holy Kaw!

7 Mantras that Will Stop You from Taking Things Personally

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There is a huge amount of freedom that comes to you when you take nothing personally. Let these mantras guide you.

Source: 7 Mantras that Will Stop You from Taking Things Personally

Choose Your Life, Don’t Settle for It

Ten years from now, make sure you can say you chose your life, you didn’t settle for it.

Source: Choose Your Life, Don’t Settle for It – Tiny Buddha

Do not waste time with negative people

Do not waste time with negative people Don’t waste another minute dealing with a toxic, negative, energydraining person. Some people are wired for negativity. They love being argumentative, combative and abusive. Run for your life as quickly as possible. — Les Brown

Source: Do not waste time with negative people by Les Brown

Being weird

Being weird Being a little weird is just a natural side effect of being awesome. — Sue Fitzmaurice

Source: Being weird by Sue Fitzmaurice

The Common Phrases that are Ruining Our Relationships

 

The words and phrases we choose have a powerful impact on our relationships. We should take those listed [in the source article] and do our best to eliminate them from our vocabulary. Then, focus on working in words and phrases that lift people up instead. This is the way to a healthy, lasting relationship.

Source: The Common Phrases that are Ruining Our Relationships. | elephant journal

Making Friends with Oneself

Whenever we practice meditation, it is important to try to refrain from criticizing ourselves about how we practice and what comes up in our practice. This would only be training in being hard on ourselves! I want to emphasize the importance of maintaining an atmosphere of unconditional friendliness when you practice and as you take your practice out into the world. We can practice for a lot of years—I know many people who have practiced for countless years, decades even—and somewhere along into their umpteenth year, it dawns on them that they haven’t been using that practice to develop lovingkindness for themselves. Rather, it’s been somewhat aggressive meditation toward themselves, perhaps very goal-oriented. As someone said, “I meditated all those years because I wanted people to think I was a good Buddhist.” Or, “I meditated all those years out of a feeling of I should do this, it would be good for me.” And so naturally we come to meditation with the same attitudes with which we come to everything. I’ve seen this with students time and time again, and it is very human.

Source: Making Friends with Oneself | Tricycle

Do not hurt anyone

Do not hurt anyone Don’t hurt anyone. It only takes a few seconds to hurt people you love, and it can take years to heal. — Nanu Thakuri

Source: Do not hurt anyone by Nanu Thakuri

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The serenity prayer? :-D

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A modern day interpretation…

Two cats chat with each other on #caturday

These two cats must have a lot to talk about, because they chatter back and forth for a minute. And then they start to give each other baths.

Source: Two cats chat with each other – Holy Kaw!

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Dr. Steve McSwain and the “4” Pillars of Wisdom

How to create healthy expectations in a relationship

The Enoch Factor

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Never before has this country—indeed this world—faced such a need for a book that unites people, a book that reassures those disillusioned by faith that they can navigate their way back to God and even experience a profound spiritual awakening. For author and entrepreneur Steve McSwain, such an epiphany transformed his life. In The Enoch Factor, readers discover a kindred spirit in an author who understands how religion can subvert a spiritual life. His story will help them navigate their own spiritual journeys.

More than a personal odyssey, The Enoch Factor is also a testimonial to the innate dangers of fundamentalist thinking. It is a persuasive argument for a more enlightened religious dialogue in America, one that affirms the goals of all religions—guiding followers in self-awareness, finding serenity and happiness, and discovering what the author describes as “the sacred art of knowing God.” Unapologetic and moving, McSwain’s take on The Almighty is sure to ignite spirited debate. Full of wisdom, humor, and truth, The Enoch Factor bridges the gap between secular and Christian book titles on spirituality, setting a new standard in both…

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Mindfulness: A New Way of Life

Mindfulness is the greatest (and cheapest) escape because you only need your attention to get the most out of your precious break and simply relax and renew

Source: Mindfulness: A New Way of Life – Purpose Fairy

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