Postsecret is one of the most interesting websites I’ve ever found. Go to the source and check it out: The Secret Room – PostSecret
You may have an anxious attachment style (without realizing it)
There’s a fine line between being overly concerned and having an anxious attachment style. The line is all about realization. Source: If you display these 9 behaviors, you may have an anxious attachment style (without realizing it)
Name something you shouldn’t do naked…
LOL. Check out some of the replies. A lot of people seem to agree that frying bacon is near the top of the list…
Belonging
“And if it’s true we are alone, we are alone together, the way blades of grass are alone, but exist as a field.”
Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer: Belonging – Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer – Mindfulness Association
Walk Slowly
It only takes a reminder to breathe, a moment to be still, and just like that, something in me settles, softens, makes space for imperfection. The harsh voice of judgment drops to a whisper and I remember again that life isn’t a relay race; that we will all cross the finish line; that waking up to life is what we were born for. As many times as I forget, catch myself charging forward without even knowing where I’m going, that many times I can make the choice to stop, to breathe, and be, and walk slowly into the mystery.
Danna Faulds, Source: Walk Slowly – Danna Faulds – Mindfulness Association
Do You Have Free Will?
A new book by Robert Sapolsky argues that we’re not in control of or responsible for the decisions we make. Source: Do You Have Free Will?
Is free will just a myth?
Listen to a scholar argues that our biology, not our free will, controls our actions on this podcast episode. Source: Is free will just a myth?
Curating What Fills Your Mind Can Shape Your Resilience
The author writes “Being resilient means you have already come through “many dangers, toils and snares.” Hopefully, you will become stronger, more mature, and compassionate. Being resilient means you have successfully broken through the darkness you confronted.
This means you have light to offer others, too. You have insights to share that can help someone else avoid an error you made yourself. Maybe you can calm someone’s fear as they face a procedure you had yourself.
Share the light. Share the wisdom life has taught you. You may well be someone’s answered prayer.”
That is the very purpose of this website — to share the light and wisdom through curation and occasionally, creation. I could just bookmark this content and keep it to myself by I share it here (and automagically to Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn and X) in hopes that just one other person might stumble upon it and benefit from it. Go to the source: Curating What Fills Your Mind Can Shape Your Resilience
Why Sharing a House or Being a Guest Can Cause Conflict
Both holiday hosts and house guests face privacy and territoriality challenges. Source: Why Sharing a House or Being a Guest Can Cause Conflict
The Absence of Jesus in Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol
Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol is a timeless classic that has been captivating readers for generations. It is a story that embodies the spirit of Christmas and teaches valuable lessons of redemption and compassion. Although various religious themes can be found throughout the novella, smart viewers (you know who you are) cannot help but notice the absence of Jesus Christ himself.
Continue reading “The Absence of Jesus in Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol”Who’s Afraid of AI—and Why?
A growing body of research sheds light on our reactions to AI and automation. Source: Who’s Afraid of AI—and Why?
Are you afraid? I am! Even though I use AI occaisionally it’s not the ways I have used it that scare me. It’s applications like this…
How Modern Men Can Improve Their Lives: Become the Best YOU
Learn how to become the best you – how modern men can improve their lives with specific habits, insights and strategies. Source: How Modern Men Can Improve Their Lives: Become the Best YOU
Learning How to Make the Most of Dating
Dating: What is it good for? Source: Learning How to Make the Most of Dating
The Profound Impact of Deliberate Acts of Kindness
Kindness has significant benefits for the giver and the receiver. Source: The Profound Impact of Deliberate Acts of Kindness
5 Traits Of Sweet, Committed Men That May Seem Like Red Flags At First
“If you have someone who looks at you with love, who puts up with your baggage, who is willing to actually listen and respond in kind, who doesn’t disappear only to return a few days later with excuses, who doesn’t leave you behind on a Saturday, keep that guy around.
A man who is nice is not a red flag! It might seem like it would be boring and not a challenge, but the truth is, if you have someone who loves you a lot, don’t push them away. Try opening your heart to someone who might be different from people you have dated before.
In most relationships, there’s always one person who loves the other more. And that dynamic can often flip. If you have someone who likes you more, don’t run. You might find that the shoe is on the other foot sometime in the not too distant future.
So, take a risk. Try out a nice guy. You might be very happy you did.” Source: 5 Traits Of Sweet, Committed Men That May Seem Like Red Flags At First
From Crisis of Meaning to Call for Meaning
Heeding Viktor Frankl’s call is more important than ever. Source: From Crisis of Meaning to Call for Meaning
Being a Better Person
What if you already are? Source: Being a Better Person
America’s Most Dystopian Halftime Show
I don’t watch much college football where Notre Dame’s not in the game but I did see this in realtime for some reason and it was bizarre! See how college football turns student debt into a game show. Source: America’s Most Dystopian Halftime Show
How to Create a Holiday Emotional Support Plan
You can create an emotional support plan to ease holiday stress and aggravation. Source: How to Create a Holiday Emotional Support Plan
How to Find Your Truth
Finding your truth is a deeply personal and transformative journey. Source: How to Find Your Truth
How to Enjoy the Holidays as a Highly Sensitive Person
“The holidays are meant to be a cherished time of togetherness with family and friends, a time to switch off from work, relax and have fun.
But for highly sensitive people (HSPs), the festive period can trigger a lot more fear than it does cheer.
Between extended periods of socializing, decorating, entertaining, gift buying and endless holiday to-do lists, HSPs can easily get overwhelmed during the holiday season. It’s a recipe for anxiety and marrow-sucking exhaustion – which is not how anyone wants to enter 2024!
Thankfully, HSPs can learn to enjoy and even relax over the holidays with a few simple tricks.” Source: How to Enjoy the Holidays as a Highly Sensitive Person
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