@Nilofer Merchant on ‘Onlyness’

Yesterday on my business blog I interviewed thought leader and TEDTalker Nilofer Merchant on the topic of ‘Onlyness’:

In her book 11 Rules for Creating Value in the Social Era, she writes:

Celebrate onlyness. The foundational element starts with celebrating each human and, more specifically, something I’ve termed onlyness. Onlyness is that thing that only one particular person can bring to a situation. It includes the skills, passions, and purpose of each human. Onlyness is fundamentally about honoring each person, first as we view ourselves and second as we are valued. Each of us is standing in a spot that no one else occupies. That unique point of view is born of our accumulated experience, perspective, and vision. Some of those experiences are not as “perfect” as we might want, but even those experiences are a source of ideas and creativity. Without this tenet of celebrating onlyness, we allow ourselves to be simply cogs in a machine—dispensable and undervalued. Continue reading “@Nilofer Merchant on ‘Onlyness’”

How to Be Fascinating

Marie Forleo writes:

Do you ever wonder what makes certain people captivating, and others…

Not so much?

Often, it has nothing to do with someone’s age, looks or even talent, but rather an innate ability to get and keep other people’s attention.

Kind of like an “it factor.”

Now what if I said that you have this certain “it factor” too but you probably don’t know it and worse, you’re not using it to your full advantage.

Hopefully, you’d be intrigued enough to keep reading…

Because my guest today, Sally Hogshead, is the world’s leading expert on the science of fascination and she’s going to show you six steps to be more fascinating.

Now before you balk, please understand that this isn’t about changing who you are.

This is about understanding and embracing the distinct advantages you were born with and being more of that.

via How to Be Fascinating.

In some ways, this is another perspective on understanding and being confident in the onlyness I discussed with Nilofer Merchant yesterday…

On Inner Peace

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“Each one has to find his peace from within. And peace to be real must be unaffected by outside circumstances.” ― Mahatma Gandhi

Todd Lohenry‘s insight:

Go to the source for more great quotes on inner peace…

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One Of The Most Important Keys To Success…

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One of the most important keys to success is having the discipline to do what you know you should do, even when you don’t feel like doing it.

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Love Is Supposed To Bring You Peace

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Love is supposed to bring you peace and happiness. If you are not feeling this in a relationship, you are living an illusion. -Leon Brown

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Believe In Yourself

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Believe in yourself, push your limits, experience life, conquer your goals, and be happy.

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4 minutes.  36 songs. Something for everyone.  And I mean everyone.  From Beethoven to Hammerstein to Johnny Cash to Aretha to Queen to Gaga to Psy.  Evolution of music from 11th century to today.  Curious about the song list?  Here it is:

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Top 7 Myths About Cell Phones and Driving

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Some new laws banning drivers from texting behind the wheel have even increased the number of accidents related to that practice. Below are the top seven myths about driving while using a cell phone.

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Facing Tragedy

Mindful Musings

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My mother sent me this…

…I think she’s bitter about me living in Wisconsin!

A boy and his dog…

…enjoying one of the first nice days of spring!

Brian Johnson interviewed on how to live your dreams…

Bonus!

@Nilofer Merchant on ‘Onlyness’

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Later today at 13:00 Chicago time, I’ll be interviewing author Nilofer Merchant on the topic of ‘onlyness’. What is it? In her book 11 Rules for Creating Value in the Social Era, she writes:

Celebrate onlyness. The foundational element starts with celebrating each human and, more specifically, something I’ve termed onlyness. Onlyness is that thing that only one particular person can bring to a situation. It includes the skills, passions, and purpose of each human. Onlyness is fundamentally about honoring each person, first as we view ourselves and second as we are valued. Each of us is standing in a spot that no one else occupies. That unique point of view is born of our accumulated experience, perspective, and vision. Some of those experiences are not as “perfect” as we might want, but even those experiences are a source of ideas and creativity. Without this tenet of celebrating onlyness, we allow ourselves to be simply cogs in a machine—dispensable and undervalued.

Merchant, Nilofer (2012-09-12). 11 Rules for Creating Value in the Social Era (Kindle Locations 107-108). Perseus Books Group. Kindle Edition.

It is my belief that an understanding of onlyness is fundamental for transformational thought leadership and I plan to talk with Nilofer about what onlyness is, how it came to her, why she thinks it’s important in the social era, how is it different than branding [or is it?] and how does one tap into it. Our talk will be available as an event in Google+ as it happens and in an archive after the fact…

Here’s Nilofer’s TEDTalk on the topic of Onlyness;

Choices…

Christine Hassler writes:

As much as you may want it, you don’t have 100% control over your life. In fact, control is an illusion.  But what you do have is CHOICE and that’s awesome.

Our inner and outer choices influence our reality more than anything else. That’s why the choices you make are incredibly important! So what’s a “good” choice?

Let’s go for more than good, let’s go for the BEST kind of choice you can possibly make…

Full story at: Are You Making This Kind Of Choice? You’re Missing Out If You’re Not!.

And if it’s all too much to bear, take your cue from…

Me? I prefer my black cat but the idea’s the same…

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How to Build an Online Community for Your Business

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Live The Meaning Of Namaste Every Day

Brigitte Meinders writes:

The word “Namaste” has become quite mainstream thanks to the explosive popularity of the yoga industry in recent years.  I’m sure you’ve said it before, and you probably have an idea of the general meaning of it. It’s a way for your soul to recognize and acknowledge the soul of another.

It would be amazing if more people took the time to really understand why we should ALL be saying Namaste to one another, and were able to shift their perspective a little bit to see other people for what they really are.

Think of yourself as a vessel filled with light. Light that changes colors depending on what angle you are looking at it, and those colors represent the many experiences you’ve had in your life. Your soul has become all of the sunsets you’ve watched, the ocean air you’ve breathed, the friends you’ve made, the love you’ve shared, the times that made you laugh and cry. You are all of your experiences.

Each and every person out there is the same way. The person in the car next to you, the cashier at the grocery store, your mailman, your friend, your spouse, even that annoying co-worker… they all carry with them that same ever-changing light, a spectrum of colors that uniquely defines them and their life experiences. They too have experienced love and pain, they have their history, their own things they hold dear, and have seen their own beautiful sights. No two are the same, yet we all have it inside us.

It’s so easy to see only the surface of a person and dismiss them for only what they are presenting to you in a given situation. But we’re all connected in that we carry around our entire life — each experience you have, each interaction, all of it is with you all the time. 

The next time you find yourself passing a person on the street, in a meeting, or talking with your friends, try to be aware of the enormity of what they’re actually carrying around with them. Practicing this makes the ability to forgive and accept much easier.

To me, Namaste means that I see you. I understand we’re both souls trying to make our way in this world, all part of some larger plan. I know that while the color of our lights may shine differently, we all share the same internal fire, and my soul bows to and acknowledges that in your soul.

via Live The Meaning Of Namaste Every Day.

5 Things To Stop Doing If You Want To Be Happy Now

5 Things To Stop Doing If You Want To Be Happy Now

The World Health Organization estimates that about 121 million people worldwide have some form of depression; whether it lasts a couple of minutes, or through many years of your life, chances are we’ve all experienced some form of depression, and it’s never any fun.  

As a self-help author and travel writer, I’ve seen similarities in people all around the world. No matter where we come from, no matter what socio-economic standard or cultural background, we all have one thing in common. We all want to be happy.

While doing research for my next book, I discovered a formula to help people strengthen their inner faith, to enable them to have confidence in every aspect of their life, and ultimately to tap into authentic happiness.

The thing is that though everyone wants to be happy, our negative beliefs and patterns often stand in the way. To get to happiness, we must first stop believing in and acting on the negative. Here are some ideas to help you be happy now!

Full story at: 5 Things To Stop Doing If You Want To Be Happy Now.

Energy Boosting Meditation: 9-Minutes Until a Energized, Happier You

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