Reading…

Reading…

It’s not the events of our lives that shape us…

It’s not the events of our lives that shape us…

Charles Schulz asked…

Everyone should carefully observe…

Everyone should carefully observe…

Press Play, Smile.

h/t David Kanigan

Relying on what you see with your eyes…

Relying on what you see with your eyes…

Quietude

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You have to meet people where they are…

Positively Positive

via Dear Me. A Letter from Your Future Self..

My space or yours?

I love the Blues and I frequently listen to Stevie Ray Vaughan or Eric Clapton channels on Pandora when I’m working. Here’s a fun take on the digital age that popped up in rotation…

Media Reacts: A Christmas Present Or Two Or Ten Edition

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Bartlett’s Book of Familiar Quotations

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Followers of this blog will know that I am what has been referred to as a “quote maven”. It’s not that I don’t have any original thoughts. Rather, I have always been interested in words and language and like the good book says “a word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a basket of silver”. Over 40 years ago, I was given a copy of the 15th edition of Bartlett’s Book of Quotations and that book has become a ‘friend’ of sorts through the years — I often find solace or inspiration in the pages of that old book. These days, you can find the contents of the book and much more at http://bartleby.com but you see there was no internet in those days! It would appear from this quote that I am channeling the spirit of Bartlett himself who said…

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The rest of it is just playing with WordPress.com. You see, I’m a WordPress developer and I need to stay on top of the capabilities of WordPress.com so I use it for my personal blog. Take what you want and leave the rest…

A word fitly spoken…

A word fitly spoken…

The oneness of humanity…

The oneness of humanity…

h/t Tara Lemieux

It takes courage...

Affirmations…

Affirmations…

Calvin on resolutions…

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Changing Your Mind Can Change Everything

Simple Reminders

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Paradoxes…

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I saw this on Facebook incorrectly attributed to George Carlin but I’m not sure where it came from. One of the paradoxes I would add to this list is ‘there has never been more information and less thinking’…

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life. We’ve added years to life not life to years. We’ve been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We’ve done larger things, but not better things.

We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We’ve conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete. Continue reading “Paradoxes…”

The Fear of Being Alone

Leo Babauta writes:

“A surprising number of people fear being alone. Maybe just about all of us do to some extent.

We fear being without a partner, or friends and family. We fear traveling alone in strange places, lost without anyone to ask for help. We fear taking on life without help, for fear of failure.

This is natural, this fear of being alone. We’ve all felt it, deep within us, though we try desperately to avoid this fear.

And this is the cause of our misery: to avoid this fear of being alone, we will socialize endlessly, including on social networks and email. To avoid being alone, we’ll end up with someone who isn’t really good for us, just to have someone to cling to, someone to rely on. We’ll eat junk food or shop to comfort ourselves, because these things are replacements for love.

But here’s the secret: being alone is empowering. The quiet of being alone is joyful.

We tend to see aloneness as bleak, depressing, scary. But it can be seen as freeing, as an opportunity for growth, an opportunity to get to know yourself.

This is something I’ve been learning the hard way. I had the fear of aloneness for many years, but learning emotional self-sufficiency is one of the best things I’ve done.

Sit quietly for a minute, now, and turn inward. Who are you? What are you capable of? What do you think about?

Can you accept yourself, when you look closely at yourself?

Can you see the beauty in yourself, as you learn something new? As you contemplate life?

This is nothing to fear, but to celebrate. Aloneness is beauty.”

Get the rest of the article here: The Fear of Being Alone.

Me? I think there’s a profound difference between being lonely and alone. Lonely is when I have no choice in the matter. When I feel as if I’ve been abandoned. Alone is when I CHOOSE to be by myself. How about you?

Hurting Someone With The Truth

Live Life Quotes, Love Life Quotes, Live Life Happy

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