10 Bad Habits Worth Losing

As we enter the first week of July, it’s been 6 months since we made our 2012 New Year’s Resolutions. How many have you nailed? And how many have fell [sic] by the wayside?

Now is a good time to review what you’ve achieved so far and what needs more work. Effective people understand the need to constantly ‘review’ themselves to improve and refine their level of productivity and achievement. Instead of focusing on what to achieve, sometimes it can be good to look at things to cut out from your life.

What bad habits do you currently have that are hindering your progress or productivity? Remember the saying:

“We are what we repeatedly do.”

What ‘thing’s do you do that you wish you didn’t?

It’s a good idea to put together a list of bad habits to remove from your life this year. And the good news is – we still have 6 months to get rid of them!” Get the answer here: 10 Bad Habits Worth Losing.

Simple Ways to Give Back and Help Others Starting Today

“We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.” ~Winston Churchill. via Simple Ways to Give Back and Help Others Starting Today | Tiny Buddha.

Make today YOUR independence day

Mastin Kipp writes:

“Let today be the day that you declare to yourself that you have inalienable rights and have the courage to stand up to those in your life who convince you otherwise. If any of your relationships do not promote your right to “Life, liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”, do what we did in 1776 and draw a boundary. And like the Preamble says, if any relationship becomes destructive, it is your right to abolish it and create new relationships that promote Safety and Happiness.

A single act of defiance in the face of oppression created a whole new country full of new found possibility and freedom. And so it is with you, if you are feeling the need for your own Declaration of Independence, have the courage to stand up for what you need. Who knows what kind of new life and possibilities are out there just waiting for you to claim your right and acknowledge that you deserve a better life? What would of happened if our forefathers hadn’t taken a stand? Where would that of left us?

If you are not in the flow of your happiness, then abundance, freedom, creativity, joy and love cannot be yours. And if you are not in alignment with belief that what you desire for yourself you also desire for others, then these gifts will also evade you.

All beings are created equal and deserve happiness. Claim your right to happiness and let go of trying to control the will others. Give them the space to find what they need and give yourself the room to do the same.

The examples of how to do this are all around you. It’s up to you to claim your own happiness and release others to find this gift for themselves.” Source: Make Today YOUR Independence Day!

The Best Revenge

“The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.”

Does Your Relationship Have a 5 to 1 Nice To Nasty Ratio?

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Teenage Bill Clinton meets JFK, 1963

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Sonic boom shatters windows in Brazil

National pride so strong, it shatters glass. Before you break into chants of “U-S-A! U-S-A!,” note that this window-breaking display of national enthusiasm happened in Brazil.

Fighter jets conducting a flag exchange ceremony in the Brazilian capital of Brasíla created a sonic boom when the Mirage 2000 planes soared too close to the ground. The powerful shock wave shattered nearly all the windows of the nearby Supreme Court building.

via Sonic boom shatters windows in Brazil .

22 Funniest Floating Head Ads

BuzzFeed – Get more here: 22 Funniest Floating Head Ads.

Kitten Battling Itself In The Mirror

This little kitten is so intimidating!

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Musings during a power outage

Jon Swanson writes:

I walk into the bathroom and turn on the electric switch. Nothing happens. For three days nothing has happened. I know the power is out. I still reach for the switch. Habits are strong.

The computer is off. I walk past my office and look at the screen. It’s still off. I still look.

I think often about wanting time to read and to write. With no access to Internet and no power for television, this would be a perfect opportunity. But I can’t sit still. I can’t let what might happen tomorrow simply happen tomorrow.

It is remarkably easy to blame the rough-running of the neighbor’s generator for the rough-running of my thoughts. And then to generate a low-voltage current of blame that wears down my motor.

It is hot, I suppose, but exercise will make me perspire anyway. And might help alleviate the uncertainty about when the power might come on. Instead, I wait for what might happen. I wait for a day, then another.

It seems that my agenda is more driven by the tools that are working than I thought. I could be working and resting, following the daylight, enjoying the restoration than can come from disconnection. Instead, I am feeling disconnected.

I am grateful for what I am learning about ingratitude during this time. We have water. We have hot water. We have a grill. We can even use the stove (if I light it manually). We have a frenchpress for coffee. Our house wasn’t hit by any trees.

I read from Acts on Sunday morning. I realized that the early church never cancelled services because the electricity was out. It was the right choice for our church on Sunday, but I’m thinking a lot about how much I depend on the wrong energy sources.” via Musings during a power outage. | 300 words a day.

Hmmm. We live in a rural area so when our power goes out, we lose our water too making it even harder to be grateful. Still I love Jon’s perspective…

Constantly Feel Good About Yourself Using These 3 Steps

It is important that you feel good about yourself. More and more scientific evidence points towards a significant link between how you feel about yourself and your overall health and sense of well-being. Scientists have proven that feelings of inferiority have the capacity to pave the way to illness or disease. On the other hand, if you feel good about yourself, have a positive outlook, and maintain an active involvement in life, you’re more likely to be happy and healthy.

Our emotional state can be affected by a lot of things the environment we are in, the people we are with, the weather, the food we eat, how much sleep we’ve had, and so on. Feeling insecure, incapable and inadequate once in a while is part of being human, what matters is that you are able to make yourself feel better again.

If you feel as if you are currently in a state wherein you need some help on bolstering your feelings of self-worth, here are some ideas that you may find helpful:

Step 1: Reframe your identity

If you were asked to describe yourself, what would you say? What be the first adjectives that you would come out with? Experts say that a person’s self-worth can be assessed by the first five words that he would use to answer this question. If you answer with negative adjectives, then you would need to redefine how you think about yourself. Instead of focusing on the shortfalls in your life, bring to mind things that make you special.

For example, instead of branding yourself as a mere office worker, try looking at yourself as a great Mom or a great Dad. Pride yourself on your greatest achievements instead of highlighting flaws.

Step 2: Challenge negative self-talk

As we go about our daily lives, we constantly think about and interpret every situation that we encounter. It’s like we have this voice inside our head that talks us through everything. Psychologists call this inner voice “self-talk.” How this inner voice talks to us is based on our values, beliefs and our conscious and subconscious thoughts. If your self-talk is mostly negative, you will have a very hard time feeling good about yourself.

To correct negative self-talk, you need to learn to notice it as it happens, and consciously dispute and challenge these negative and irrational thoughts. Ask yourself questions like, “Are my thoughts factual?”, “Is this situation as bad as I am making out to be?” or “What can I do that will help me solve the problem?”. Make it a point to conquer self-defeating thoughts with positive and realistic thinking.

Step 3: Take time for yourself

In this world where everyone and everything seems to be in a rush, most of us don’t make ourselves a priority. Often we focus on catering to the needs of others and on being productive. Although it is good to take care of the people you love and fulfill your responsibilities at home and at work, you should not neglect your responsibility and obligation to yourself.

In the same way that you make others feel good when you take care of them, taking care of yourself will also bring about the same feelings. Make it a point that you allocate a certain amount of time each day for yourself to do things you love. Paying attention to yourself has been proven to improve self-esteem and feelings of self worth.

It is impossible for anyone to feel perfectly happy about who he is for their entire life. We are all bound to feel inferior or insecure every once in a while. Fortunately, our thoughts and feelings are not permanent and there are so many ways to love, accept and feel good about ourselves.” via Constantly Feel Good About Yourself Using These 3 Steps.

Watch Out For the “I’m Right, You’re Wrong” Conversation

Gretchen Rubin writes:

A few days ago, I posted about a phenomenon I describe as “oppositional conversational style” (OCS for short), and I’ve been flabbergasted by the heated response.
I thought I’d identified some obscure, rare pattern of human interaction, but it turns out that lots of people had already identified this kind of interaction.

A person with “oppositional conversational style” is a person who, in conversation, disagrees with and corrects whatever you say. Maybe in a friendly way, maybe in a belligerent way, but their remarks are framed in opposition to whatever you say.

I was fascinated to read people’s comments. I learned several things.

First, people recognize this pattern easily. OCS, it turns out, is a widespread phenomenon.

Second, people find it tiresome to be on the receiving end of OCS. To be repeatedly told “I’m right; you’re wrong,” in every context, gets annoying.

Third, at least some people who practice OCS recognize it in themselves, and they think there’s value to this kind of exchange. They engage with others in this way because they find it fun to argue, or they want to get facts exactly correct, or because they want to make clear that there’s another side to an argument (even if they don’t particularly believe in that side of the argument, they want to explore it).

Fourth, OCS is sometimes related to the Tigger vs. Eeyore distinction. OCS seems associated with Eeyoredom, though not everyone who exhibits OCS is an Eeyore.

I think it’s helpful to watch out for the “oppositional conversational style.” Sometimes, just being able to identify something that’s bugging you somehow lessens the annoyance. Instead of reacting to the exchange unthinkingly, you realize, “Oh, I’m in the presence of the oppositional conversational style! How very interesting!” Get more here: Watch Out For the “I’m Right, You’re Wrong” Conversation | Psychology Today.

The Most Important Medical Advice Ever Given Upon Release From An Emergency Room

The Most Important Medical Advice Ever Given Upon Release From An Emergency Room | Happy Place.

Kids

THIS KID – Very Demotivational – The Demotivational Posters Blog.

Rediscovered shots of the Blues Brothers

Holy Kaw! via Rediscovered shots of the Blues Brothers.

Remembering Andy Griffith: ‘America’s favorite sheriff’

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10 Things You Might Not Know About America’s Independence

C’mon, world! We’re not all imperialist dogs — some of us are quite nice actually! Here are some things you might want to know about our Independence Day:

On July Fourth, Americans eat hot dogs and apple pie, watch fireworks, and go swimming. But what are we really celebrating? Standard answers to this question are that we are celebrating our independence or the signing of the Declaration of Independence. Well, yes and no.

Here are 10 things you might not know about our America’s Independence Day.” Get the answer here: 10 Things You Might Not Know About America’s Independence | All Pro Dad.

Andy Griffith Is Dead At 86

Andy Griffith Is Dead At 86.

A lot of people don’t realize Andy got his start as a standup comic. You can read about his life here

U.S. President George W. Bush (R) presents his Presidential Medal of Freedom to actor Andy Griffith at a ceremony in the East Room of the White House in Washington, November 9, 2005.

The Treasure Within Your Struggle

Jackie Dumaine wrote something so good I want to share the entire thing with you here:

“We all have them.

Moments of darkness.

Moments where we’re not sure what will come or if we even have the strength to wait.

Moments where we feel lost, confused and unsure of our existence.

What I’ve come to learn in the last few years is that in these moments of darkness, there is wisdom to be found.

Unanswered questions find their home in this space.

Whether it’s related to life, career or love – our deepest wounds and heartaches can be the source of our greatest joy.

“Where there is ruin, there is hope for a treasure.” ~ Rumi

The 8th principle of The Yoga Code is Tapas – and it asks to hold on during the dark hours of life.  To have the faith and the belief that everything that happens has a purpose – but if we give up and let go too soon, we may never discover what that purpose is.

Tapas asks us to gather the strength, courage and self-discipline to carry through. To hold on for another moment until we can see the blessing in each of our struggles.

As a Yoga Inspired Life Coach and Yoga Teacher, I am not immune to the curve balls that life throws us.

I will never pretend to be.

I have moments of intense confusion. There are times when I doubt my Self and my path. My heart aches.

This is what makes me human.  It’s what gives me the ability to relate on a personal level with my students, coaching clients, friends and family.  It’s what makes me real – and it’s what will make you real.

Please don’t discount your struggles and your shadows. Do not hide them behind a medieval shield of protection. Refrain from acquiring the belief that the world is out to get you. You are worthy of abundance, joy and love.

Do you believe that?

Life has a unique way of showing us the faith it has in our ability to shine.

Pretty remarkable, isn’t it?  Trust this.”

via Jackie Dumaine – Blog – The Treasure Within Your Struggle.

Not Losing Weight? Listen Up!

You’ve been watching what you eat for weeks, but you can’t seem to get the scale to budge.

To rev up your metabolism and get the scale moving in the right direction, you might want to take a better look at what you’re putting in your mouth.

But it’s not all about the food.

Let’s dive in and help you shed those unwanted pounds…shall we?

It’s time to get clean

While we’ve all been told to check the labels, foods that require labels are processed, and processed foods can be poison to a diet plan. While low-fat granola bars and fuel-packed protein bars might have their place in an emergency (like hiking the Appalachian Trail, where there’s not a salad bar in sight), in the real world eating “clean” is the way to go.

That means eating foods as close to their natural state as possible – fresh fruits and veggies, lean meats and healthy fats. Keep the empty calories of processed foods out of the shopping cart. Instead, opt for foods in their natural state and not in a wrapper.

Get Off the Couch

Are you a couch potato, crashing after a day of work with a marathon session of your favorite TV show rather than a walk around the block?

The key to successful weight loss is torching more calories than you take in, so couch potatoes will have a tougher time dropping pounds.That’s not to say you need to channel your inner Arnold Schwarzenegger…hmmm, bad example, to successfully lose weight. You just need to recognize that exercise is a great way to burn extra calories and will help you have a better shot at seeing the numbers on the scale drop.

Take a walk, head to the park for a game of Frisbee or revisit your childhood and tune up that bike so you can hit the road for a burst of cardio your body will appreciate. The biggest perk is that the added activity will likely lead you to try new forms of exercise, and could inspire you to hit the gym to bust some weightlifting moves that will give your metabolism an added boost.

Keep Your Cool

Living on the edge with high stress levels and a constant anxiety can wreak havoc on even the best of diets.

Stress results in a flood of cortisol rushing through your system, an age-old response that began in the cave man era, when our bodies warned us of life-threatening dangers with the flight-or-flight response we now know as stress. The thing is, we now see rush-hour traffic and cranky co-workers in the same way as deadly cougar attacks, and we’re not fleeing the scene to reap the benefits of the response.

Those elevated cortisol levels lead to attacks on muscles, reduced insulin resistance, and the storage of unwanted fat (just in case that cougar blocks our path to the grocery store for a few weeks).

Try to find a little more Zen in your life, through yoga, meditation or massages might do the trick.

Time Your Meals

An effective way to build the healthy eating habit is to time your meals. Predetermined the day before exactly what time you will be eating. Schedule them roughly four hours apart. So for example; 8am, noon, 4pm, and 8pm would be your meal times for the day. This will keep you metabolism running high, blood sugar stable so your body can stay primed for buying stored fat as fuel, and satisfied to stave off any cravings. Prepare meals ahead of time so that you are ready to roll.

Dieting is Outdated

Really what it all comes down to is lifestyle changes — and seeing a healthy lifestyle as a choice that makes living an adventure.

If you eat right, you have the energy to head to the hills for a hike, hop on the mountain bike and tackle that challenging new trail or take the dog for a walk around a bigger block. And that opens the door for the life you want to live, not a life you only have the energy to dream about.

It’s just a matter of making slow, easy-to-manage changes that reflect a new found attention to a healthy way of living, like trading water for soda or a more nutrient-packed veggie place of mashed potatoes.” via Not Losing Weight? Listen Up!.

Normally, I would feel guilty curating something like this, however, in this case I’ve been doing all these things for a couple of months and the results have been amazing. I can testify first hand to what great advice this is…

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